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masterbation & Sex

I am 21 years old. Ever since I was in middle school i started masterbating (masturbating), before i used to do it 2-4 times a week. Now i do it about 5 times a day!!!

I need help, first of all i want to know what are the side effects to exessive masterbation (masturbation). I have tried to stop but it is hard.
I have a girlfriend and we have sex about 2-3 times a week.

However i still masterbate every day countless times.

I know it can make you tired, but what are the good effects and the bad effects about it?

Why do i masterbate alot? How can i stop? Whats a a healthy amount of times to do it? What are the side effects?

I have always been complimented about how i perform intercourse, and women at my job think i havea big penis because of the bulgge in my pants but when i am erect it is only about 6-7 inches big and when i'm limp its like 2-3 inches. Many woman say i was their best and before i had a girl i was very active. But i want to stop masterbating (masturbating)!!! Sometimes when i get hard it will only be 5-6 inches even though its been as hard as 7 inches before.

What are ways to be sexually healthy? why cant i stop? i want to stop! I get very turned on by beautiful women each day, i work with at least 3 women who have great bodies and are very attarctive and they turn me on but i dont want to be a perv!!! help... can my penis shrink because of masterbation (masturbation), will it stun its growth ...
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there is nothing wrong with masturbation other than it takes up a lot of time, maybe try to keep yourself more active in doing things rather than playing with yourself. there is no right or wrong to sex or masturbation, i do it at least twice a day one when i wake up and one when i go to sleep, and naturally i get sex in there too.... i would do it more if i had more time, and tend to when i am bored,

do you play sports?
do you get out much?

i am sure your penis length is fine6 to 7 inches is average or slightly above average if its thick then it may be large,

if your performance is that good what do you have to worry about, be happy with yourself, don't cut back if you don't wnat to but i would suggest you take up more activities outside of porn and masturbation,

i don't think i have heard of any side effects of masturbating too much, i am lead to believe if you don't empty your pipes then it can be more of a risk of stale sperm and increase the risk of cancer,,.,, its what i heard but not sure if its true. naturally the body though should release the sperm through nocturnal emersions wet dreams... but i don't know anyone who doesn't masturbate or get sex to realieve the tension

hope this makes sense
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Just adding to what blueeyedboy192002 said, no point in stressing over masturbation or the amount of times a week you do it.

There is an old saying " Those that admitt that they masturbate are stupid and those that say they dont are liars", if that is the case I have been stupid for 50+ years, I ssuspect that the time I stop masturbating will be when I am in my grave.

20 Years ago I got Prostatitis boy was I in pain, a Urologist who was an old guy stuck his finger in my backside (yikes he had a finger like a banana), told me my prostate felt boggy, a healthy prostate does not feel boggy, he told me to masturbate or have sex with my Wife every day, he added that masturbation was better for the prostate than making love to the Wife,

Well 19 years later I went to see another urologist who ordered blood teasts and gave me the finger treatment (smaller fingers this time Phew), he told me that there was only about a 5% chance of me ever getting prostate cancer and my prostate was as good as a 35 year old. well it seems the masturbation helped me, I have no problem telling other Males that masturbation is good for them, to me it comes natural.

Enter Porn, bad news porn, OK for the gutter rats that make the movies and get rich but bad if used as a masturbation aid over a long period of time, masturbation is normal, looking at filth is not, its easy to get hooked on, better if you can keep clear of it.
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yeah tend to agree crazy, i must admit i have watched porn for years while masturbating, and have found that i struggle to get off when with someone. the longer i go without it the more sensual and intimate the sex is when i am with them....

although i do love my porn but i do agree it rots the minds because life is just not like that....

sex can be hot sweaty awkward **** exciting funny sad it can have every emotion, if you do it like they do on porn shows then its all mechanical. who needs more mechanics when we got imaginations and each other

i must be getting old saying stuff like that hehe
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hey blueeyedboy192002 ya sound kinda gay ever seen a guy naked u might like it
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dose too much mastibation reduce sperm cout
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