masturbation disruptive to life and to sleep

masturbating for years etc... peepshows etc...masturbating just seemed to zap that ongoing electrical impulse for sex. later i used drugs, psychedelic and hard, and would masturbate for hours. now ive eliminated the drugs but the problem for me is i could never masturbate just ONCE. its always 3-9 times every 2 or 3 days. Its very disruptive to my day, and i would love to stop, but when i try to sleep my heart rate increases since theres all this sexual energy that needs to come out thus preventing me from sleeping, so i have to go and masturbate. i try without porn since the porn just increases all this, but the problem is , is that my d*ck and balls just become engorged and 'bloated' and i cant sleep , focus, or , relax. Ive tried sleep meds, they usually dont work. Even if I go to the gym I still have this problem whereby every 2-3 days i must masturbate 3-5 times or more. Im 34 yrs old, i dont have much of a life, i feel somewhat alienated and have anxiety, and i figure that all my time and energy which should be going to being very busy, is concentrating itself into sex. also, most girlfriends ive had never really quenched the sexual monster in me. i wish i knew what to do. i probably should be a boxer or something. or go somewhere slower. i think its city living and seeing all the women and media which confuses my mind and realizing im not like them, so i masturbate because of the frustration of going against my nature and pushing myself. for years everytime i would visit manhattan i would have to hit the peep shows because seeing all the women made my craziness crazier.. im really suffering and it feels like torture to masturbate so long. i hate it now at this point in my life.

[Dalubaba]

Everybody masterbates. you are masterbation (masturbation) little more han others.Take it calmly.reduce it slowly.consult councellors.there are remedy for every sexual problem.Adhere faithfully to the instructio of doctors.
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