hello everyone if I could get your help on this I would be so grateful
I am 24 years old and my girlfriend is 28
I have been going out with my girlfriend now for two and half years, the first year and a half were great, we would have regular sex at least 3 times a week, I love her to pieces and think she is fantastic but something has gone wrong
in the last year she stopped taking the birth control pill as she said it makes her fat and she doesnt want to put on more weight than what she already is.
for some reason our sex life has died, we have gone from regular enjoyable sex to now once a month if I am lucky. she has no interest in sex what so ever, she doesnt seem to care at all for my needs as far as she is concerned she would rather just sleep.
sex is now on her terms only if and when I ever get it, if by the off chance she is in the mood then we can only ever do what sex possitions she wants.
I have talked to her about this problem and I only ever get one response "I dont know" she always gets moody when ever we talk about it, The longest time I have gone with out sex now with her is just under 2 months.
This is really starting to effect me alot, I am now horney all the time and craving some sexual attention, it is making me grumpy and most of all very depressed, I am struggling to focust on work because all I think about is sex.
She once told me that I expect sex to much and that normal couple do it once or twice a month is this true? am I want sex to much?
what can I do about my cravings for sex
I would be really grateful for some advice before I lose my mind.