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[Thunter]

I am engaged to a saved woman she will not have sex before marriage. I love her very much and want to comply with her wishes, so in april when I decided to commit myself to her, and wait one year before we have sex (wedding in April 2007), I stopped having sex with anyone. Now I am in constant pain I mean the pain is so bad sometimes I just want to go get another woman just to relieve the pressure,my balls hurt so bad I can't stand for them to touch anyting not even eachother, I wake up with *** all over me in the middle of the night causing me to have to take a shower, sometimes I have dripped so bad it is hard and stuck to me I feel mad and ashamed that I can't control myself I will not jack off, and she doesn't understand why I am so angry all of the time. If this keeps up we won't have a marriage.

MY QUESTION: What can I do to relive myself without having sex  with another woman or jacking off? Is there something I can do for the pain,the swelling and the dripping?

[Adevotee]

it's perfectly normal to masterbate. Is there a particular reason why you won't. Will she not have any sexual contact with you until you are married. If she will, then see if she can "help" you relieve the pressure.

Take Care

[PammySue]

Yes....why will you not masturbate?  Everyone does it and it seems to be the only logical answer to your problem.

[who_is_this]

Did she make you promise not to masturbate?  That's a bit extreme.  Like the others said, everyone does it.  It's totally normal.

[Silly_but_Cute]

Wow If a person loves you that much I think she would understand you are still a human and a man. You can't walk around like this. She needs to know that it is normal to do that. I find your going to be very unhappy with this lifestyle even if you do get married to her. You should feel free and open to your women not in pain and walking around with the worse case of blue balls. That's not fair to you. Jack away and don't ever let anyone tell you will burn in hell for it. A man is a man so go and be one ok. Take care!

[deatharc]

I would like to make a comment about the "everyone does it" comment. Not "EVERYONE" masturbates because some people can't its either against their religion they don't like doing it or they think its sinful. Just because you and I masturbate does not mean everybody else does it.

[007swife]

MOVE UP THE WEDDING!!!!!!