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oral sex

Hi,
I am 29 yr old male married. Ever since my marriage, my wife does not
allow me to lick her vagina. She tells me that she feels so gross.
I feel very dissapointed as I would love to go down on her.  She has never given
me a ******* either. Please advice.
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There is nothing really wrong with your wife.  All people have preferences, likes and dislikes.  In time her feelings may or may not change.  You don't say how long that you've been married.  If only a short time, she may become more daring (for her) after she becomes more accustomed to you.  Do not pester her about this but in romantic moments, you could mention it from time to time.  Can I assume you are engaging in regular intercourse?  For many women, that is all the sex that they want to do.  Depending upon her background, ethnicity, and culture, she has formed certain preferences that she is comfortable with.    
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139792 tn?1498585650
Gynecologist /urologist can help you to diagnose her problem....
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11124303 tn?1415840632
Have you tried watching porn with her? You can tell by the way she reacts to the sex scenes if she is really naive or frigid. You know how to look for the signs right? if she's only ignorant of the various sex positions then you have a chance of changing her attitude toward sex. However, if she's frigid, man, you'll be in for a frustrating sex life!
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did ever you have sex with her? if not you made a big mistake of marrying her. if no to all the above, she could be hiding that she is a transgender.
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