penis size

hey,

I am 14 years old and I am afraid of my penis size.It is 5 inch.Is it normal or it is small for my age?The worst is the fact that I have been developed enough and everyone who sees me thinks that I am at least 3 years older.I mean that I think that my develop has ended and my penis is gonna stay like this!! I am so afraid of that fact!!

I need your help!Reply as soon as possible...

[Myron_Long]

Your penis size is fine. When you're older, date a woman that's not so concerned about the size and more concern of you still being a great lover.

[AnnieBrooke]

This is one that guys compete with each other about, but women don't care about.  The average woman's vagina is 5 to 6 inches deep.  What would she do with more inches, besides get the life pounded out of her cervix by some guy who has too much penis length for her vagina?  All the nerves for her arousal are in the first third of her vagina anyway, which is the first less-than-two inches.  Don't worry about length, concentrate on learning what women like to talk about, how to be emotionally generous and supportive, and how to treat a woman like a human being, and you'll do fine in the penis department.

[question774]

Most importantly this is something that you can do nothing about. Keep in mind there are many others with less length than you so be happy for what you have. Other comments were right on. Focus on learning what satisfies a woman emotionally and  you the size of your penis will be hardly relevant. 5 inches is very normal and nothing to be ashamed of.

[AnnieBrooke]

In fact, if you know what it takes to satisfy a woman emotionally, you will have to beat women off with a stick and will be ahead of 90% or men.  It isn't the equipment, it's the heart.

Clues to satisfying a woman emotionally:
-  Choose well in the first place.  Someone you can laugh with, someone you can talk to, someone you find attractive, someone who is in an emotionally good place.  Don't pick based on your buddies' opinion, love is not a contest.
-  Listen when she is talking for how she feels, not just the facts or the fast answer.  Respond to what she is feeling.  If she is indignant, be sympathetic.  If you can't tell why the hell she feels some way, ask a question based on a genuine desire to understand why she is feeling that way.  
-  Don't rush to solve things.  That's a male way to be, save the snap answers for your male friends.  She might just want to lay out the whole deck of cards and look at it a while to decide what cards are the most important.  Hold fast (try to stick with her) while she is doing this and describing them to you.
-  Be cheerful, and be there for her.  You don't have to be a doormat, and should not (since all women like their men to have backbone) but if you are standing on your own two feet, strong and sure, and reach out a cheerful hand to her, she'll think you're really hot.
-  Never lie to her.  You don't have to spill guts on every feeling, but absolutely never sneak around.  If you are finding someone else more attractive, man up to the attraction, and break it off with her.  Women don't like to be broken up with any more than men do, but they are more harmed by being strung.  It adds insult to the hurt.  Don't do the worst thing out of emotional cowardice.

I'm sure there are a lot of others.  I once was so jealous of a girlfriend because her boyfriend would blow-dry her hair!!!  I know that sounds ridiculous, but my husband would a) never dream of such a thing, b) not know how to do it, c) maybe wonder if he looked like a weenie or a gay hairdresser if he did it.  But to my girlfriend (and it would also have been true to me), her boyfriend's gesture was a really selfless favor.  It's a pain in the butt to blow-dry your own hair every day (not to mention that we do it because we want to look good to our man), and for a guy to understand what a nuisance this is and to be able to help is just mind-blowing.  Another example -- one time, my sister's husband moved the laundry from the washer to the dryer, and in the move, he carefully took out the mesh bag that had her stockings in it, and laid them out separately to air-dry.  Can you believe it, she cried because she was so touched that he even noticed that this is how her nylons were supposed to be handled.  So, you see, it's not so hard.  A guy who is emotionally in tune with what is a nuisance or difficult in a woman's life, and cares enough to help her with even her trivial concerns, is going to win with the ladies all the time.

[AnnieBrooke]

Oh, in the first sentence, I meant "90% of men," not 90% "or" men.

[pao13]

I would like to thank you all for your very helping and resultful advices and as result am getting over my "problem"!!!!

thanks very much