penis size

[fulloquestions]

ummm ya i fell weird but here is how the story goes when i ways a baby my parents thaught i was alredy in enough pain cause i had
been sick and had needles in me so deicided NOT to get me circumcised now at the age of 13 i feel when i don't have an erection it is too small oh i have a nother question but please answer this first

thank you

[09999]

umm.. well i dont really think i understand what your saying, so next time set out the question in a more readable way.
but a lot of men or boys are worried about their penis size. its probably nothing to worry about. i'd say average for a full grown male is probably about 6 inches. But dont worry if its less. They come in all different shapes and sizes.

[09999]

yep, 6 inches errect. and i agree with everything u said.
:)13 is too young to worry about this sorta thing.

[BeaumontBoy]

13 is not to young to think about sex and stuff. Its the best age to start learning. in fact you should really ask your father. if he is not around ask an uncle older brother or something. also 6 inch is about avg when hard. some are real short when soft. some dont gain in size when hard so they are 6 inch soft. with all that said size when soft means nothing at all. cant do anything with a softone. also you still have some growing to do. when you turn 18 and still think this way talk with your dr about and get tested for hypogonadism. you can talk with your Dr now if you think you can. also if you dont want your mother or father in the room with you when you are at your dr office ask them to leave. your dr can not tell them anything at all.

[JoAnnaRF]

I have two teenaged sons and I think it is totally normal to be thinking of these things. And the masturbation question as well.It is SO TOTALLY normal to masturbate and is actually necessary. Men have to have that release weather it be intentional through masturbation or spontaneous through nocturnal emissions (wet dreams) It is going to happen. I don't  talk to my sons that much about these things since I don't share the same equipment and who feels comfortable talking to MOM about this stuff, but they do talk to their Dad and each other about these things, and they have come to me when they were worried about things being "wrong". And they were told before puberty, what to expect and what was normal. My husband didn't want them freaking out when they had a wet dream or their first erection like he did with NO info from his parents.
AS for size.. hmm... You are but 13. You are still growing and have a LOT to look forward to. My husband says 6 inches is the norm. And Bigger is NOT better. I totally agree with oceans that us gals really appreciate the head on your shoulders and the love in your heart more than anything.  If being uncircumsized bothers you, tell your Dad. It isn't too late to have the procedure but it is a lot better to have it done as an infant. Less complications. But you have what God gave you and that is just fine. Try not to worry too much. Enjoy school, sports, video games, and being a teenager. There is plenty of time to worry about all that serious stuff later.
--J

[fulloquestions]

thanks you really help a lot

[JoAnnaRF]

oceans>> I would be so upset if I thought my sons were worried over something like Size. Maybe they do. I don't know. Maybe all boys worry over it. Who started that nasty rumor that size makes a bit of difference anyways?  I can't get that silly saying out of my head, "It's not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean." LOL Remember that one? True yes, but oh so cheesy. According to my husband, he started thinking about sex and his "stuff" at birth. LOL
This new forum is so great to learn a thing or two for everyone, even us girls.
*hugs* to the Wolverines!
--J

[Needinfoplease]

You know I just started coming to this forum and as I read the comments, I remember feeling some of the same things I read others going through.  Guys always are wondering if they are "ok" and are going to be accepted in school and with their friends as I'm sure girls are.  At 13 I'm sure the showers at school are coming into play and every guy (I would guess) worries or did, if they are "normal" and or have the "normal" size penis or are over weight or have bigger muscles and so on.  I think as you grow in age and maturity you realize big penis, small penis, heavy or skinny there is someone out there for you.  It has been mentioned that girls want bigger breast, I understand why but the truth is there are some of us the love smaller breasts!!  As I've gained knowledge I've learned one great thing; there is someone out there that will find everything or almost everything about you to be exactly what they what from a partner.  The problem is I spent many nights and years wounding what other people thought instead of enjoying my time in school.  My suggestions is “try” not to worry how you match up with others and spend more time enjoying growing up and experiencing that time in your life.  Someday, today, tomorrow, next year you will find it really doesn't matter what the size of your penis is. Enjoy your life with what you have been given.  I guarantee you are not the only one at school that is wondering how they match up.  Good luck.

[maryheather]

Very well said.  My sentiments exactly, and you stated it beautifully for this young man.  Nice to see a sensitive, well-spoken man on the board!!
(All of the rest of you are, as well, he just stated his opinion so nicely....)
Have a great day....MH

[JoAnnaRF]

Oceans>> You are so right about teen and tween girls. I know I sure worried over it WAY too much! Fact is I hadn't even thought to compare the boys worry over penis size to a girls worry over breast size. And needsinfo spoke in a way that applied to both girls and boys! The whole time I was reading the post I was thinking, WOW, that was Sooo me in middle and high school. I suppose we all feel the same way and just assume that everyone else is full of self confidence.  
oceans also pointed out that girls do not have the ability to just hide if they are well endowed or not, the world can see what she has. Another point that does mark the differences in girls and boys is that girls have it thrown into their faces constantly by the opposite sex,other women, advertising, t.v., movies, magazines, etc... that bigger breasts are BETTER. Men just do not experience that the way women do.
I was very lucky to have found one of the people that needinfo spoke of that finds every (or almost every) part of me EXACTLY what he wants and needs!
Wow this is insightful. I am sure learning a lot! And isnt it nice MH to have men informing us with respect? There are some really nice guys here and I for one am realy enjoying learning from them.
Have a great day everyone!
--J

[Needinfoplease]

Wow, first of all thank you for the nice comments!!  Even when you believe something it is nice to hear that your thoughts are well received by others!!

Second, I’m sure it is very hard for women to live up to the expectations others place upon them.  Men do have the same pressure but they are applied in a different way.  Penis size seems to be a measurement of a man's ability to be a man.  Unfortunately at fulloquestions age or at least in my experience, it causes a lot of question and doubts.  I hope that he waits until he is older to experience intimacy with females but the anxiety is still there.  I agree the breast issue in more "public" so to speak but the same issues apply along with others.  Unfortunately I think people in general spend way to much time trying to be what they think a man or women should be instead of being the person they are and being the best person they can be.  Steroids, weight loss, clothes that enhance all of these make companies millions of dollars each year.

fulloquestions, no matter what you do, people are going to make fun of each other and talk about the way things should be.  I believe the first thing to being accepted by others is to accept yourself.  Don't be over confident but confidence is something people respond to more that the size of any body part.  I'm sure that in school you have heard, at one point or another, everyone being the subject of someone else’s joke.  I know it's easy to say but try to remember that no one is perfect and everyone has faults.  Normal, big, small it really doesn't matter when you look at the big picture.  You will have many years to experience things in life and have many different friends and enemies.  Pick your friends, ones that are honest and true to you.  I think that is a better way to spend you time worrying about the size of your penis or anything else.  Having said that I know it is still a concern and just believe me when I tell you, size if just like any other body part.  Everyone is different and everyone is unique.  Try to confident in yourself and your abilities.  I think all of this is part of school and life.  It's part of learning and growing.  I guarantee you most everyone if not everyone your age has the same questions and concerns that you do.  I hope this helps.  

[goober1]

Actually the average size of the male penis is 5 1/4 erect.  The reason I know is because I was once worried sick about it and at 13 I was probably not even close to that but unless things have changed and it is quite possible they have, but I did my research at 17 so there is a gap of research of 12 years but I doubt it is significant.  Size only really matters to us men, the female is basically concerned with how you use the tool.  I measured myself at 18 and I was 7" and that was a big difference from 13 but even today I think I am too small but I dont concern myself with it because if the woman really wants you or girl for that matter she will not care....there are plenty ways to please a woman outside of penial penetration.  Don't lose sleep over it, you will be fine in the end....trust me.

[bo_by]

I dont think this has anything to do with any of this but i am 15 years old and i have a gf that is older then me by a year or so and me and her have talked about haveing sex and everything i am still a virgin and she isnt and my penis size fully erected is about 5 1/2 - 6 inches and i ve never had sexx befor and i was just wonder if i could get some advice or anything and if i would be able to please her

[beck13]

Actually, i live in Nigeria and there are many guys with huge **** around. The truth is that, girls love huge ****, there is no two ways about that and we love a good size boobs too.

[axion]

do not get cut it is not a good idea i was cut and i hate it

[fun86]

how to enlarge pennis size naturally.???

[hurtnconfused]

i was Circumcised as an infant and 19 now am just finding out about it i feel violated . no one had the right to do that to me i hate my mom for it .are circumsised penises smaller than natural ones and every one tells me i dont know what im missing is there any way to decircumcise some one

thank you

[pdj]

You're absolutely fine. 6" at 13 years old is at least normal, if not above normal. You have about 7 more years of puberty too, buddy. The fact that you are uncircumcised has nothing to do with your size; if anything, you'll be bigger, because you don't have anything holding it back! I agree with the other guys: I was circumcised at birth and I HATE IT.

[teenageralert]

I'm a british 14 year old, and am extremely secretive about the fact that my penis is circumsized. I was circumsized at a young age, hardly remember it, but hate my parents for it. I'd like to do all sorts of things with girls but I think they would just say 'Eww, look at it, it's all ugly and horrible..noway'. In Britain, it's just not the 'done thing' whereas in America I've heard it's good for social reasons and it's accepted. Do teenage girls accept if a penis is circumsized, because when it comes to sex i'd rather save the embaressment of a girl saying no and spreading around about my penus 'issue'.

On a worrying secondary note, whenever I masterbate I have to use some sort of lubricant. This is usually water and , sick as it may seem, my own mucus. I've tried many-a time to masterbate without lubricants but found that pleasure is low and I become un-erect. I am worried something is wrong with my penis. Does this mean that when it comes to sex I will not sperm?

Please reply in a civil and decent manner, I am using the name anonymous because I am extremely embarressed about my penis. Thank you for reading this and hopefully you can answer my questions.

[55]

yea umm  i just turn 13 3 months ago and my penis size is 2 and a half inches and i want to know is that the right size for my age....

[natural man]

I was not circumcised at birth, as were no other males in my family.  When my two sons were born, the doctors insisted that circumcision was necessary, so I consented.  I have since learned more about this matter and regret those decisions.  I have also apologized to my sons for this.

[iaintsure]

i am 13 and i think i suffer from phomosis. this means that i cant get my bellend out of my foreskin. i find this highly embaressing and no1 else nows. i also worry about the size of penis. could the phomosis be stunting the growth. has anyone had the sam problem and could help me thanks

[soufboi]

hi
im 17 and the length of my penis is about 6 inches and the girth is about 4 inches is this normal?
i think that it is quite skinny but you girls can be the judge of that
also if a penis is skinnier does that mean that it does not please the girl?
how skinny can a penis actualy be to please a girl?

[penistosmall]

i have the same problem, im almost 16 and my penis hasnt even grown any, i dont know if there is something wrong, i want a bigger penis, but i see others in showers younger than me with larger units....please help..i want to know if something is wrong...thank you

[mark1298]

hey bud dont listen to these women there just bull sh.tting you. the truth is penis size matters to alot of women. maybe the few that are on here dont really care that much about size. there just lying to you to make you feel better they dont want you knowing the truth.

trust me every person on this site will tell you the same thing that penis size is not that important but the truth is is that size is very important. these women just dont wanna hurt your feelings so there lying to you. as far as size you should have at least 6 inches any less than that and women are gonna complain and make fun of you. if your penis is small make an appointment with your doctor and tell him and have your hormone levels checked especially testosterone.

if you have low testosterone then youll wind up having a small ******. you might need some testosterone shots to make your penis bigger and possibly some growth hormone as well. go to the doctors and have a check see while your still young. dont wait forever because if you do then youll be 16 years old with a small ****** and no girls are gonna wanna have sex with you.

or if you do have sex with them it will be embarrasing for you and behind your back they will laugh at you and make jokes about your little ******. trust me i dont have a small penis but i know some guys that do and they have a tough time with women and iv heard the women laugh at them behind there backs alot of times and make jokes about them being too small and not being able to satisfy them. it really hurt there feelings when i told them there girlfriends were laughing at them behind there backs. dont let these women on here fool you about penis size because it definetly matters to most women. there might be a small percentage and i mean small percentage of women that dont care but most do care. JUST BEING HONEST AND STRAIGHT FORWARD WITH YOU
                                                               GOOD LUCK!

[mark1298]

sometimes the truth is hard to accept but its necessary.

[marra315]

all you teenage boys need to have patients ! you are still growing till at least 18 , if you still fee its a problem then see your doc x x

[Yossarian]

There are three billion women in the world and the degree to which size matters is different for each and every one of them.  

What constitutes too small or too big is subjective as all three billion have different psychological and physiological make-ups.  What might be too small for some women is fine for others.  Similarly what is fine for some is too big for others.

I could tell that one woman was less than impressed with what i was packing whereas with another certain positions were impossible because it was too deep for her.  

Women's bits, like mens, can vary greatly with some much tighter, or shallower than others.  Some prefer foreplay to penetration, some get turned on by a big member.  It's ludicrous to suggest that there is a (if you pardon the pun) one-size-fits-all answer to this debate.

Women have suffered immeasurably (again, a pun of sorts) over the years by how men have made them to feel about their bodies.  The same media-led shaming is now being felt by men who have suddenly to face up to psuedo-scientific studies, penis enlargement adverts and 101 other size-related things everywhere they turn.

Also, with more and more people, male and female, watching porn they are being confronted with bodies of both sexes which bear little resemblance to how average men and women look.

Not being female I could well be wrong but from speaking to women friends i would say that there probably is a too big and a too small for every woman but what that means to each of them varies enormously.

[marra315]

you are correct , it does cut both ways same as you like big/small breast , fat /thin girls . there is sombody for evryone in this world who will love them truly no matter how big or small anything is .and its just a matter of finding them ! that is the problem  though ,and its down to personal self confidance and we all must learn to love what we have got as someone will see that as a asset and in turn they will love what we have too ! luck to all in their quest to find this x x x

[mark1298]

ok but you guys have to admit that some women do not like a smaller than average penis. everyone always says that size doesnt matter but in alot of cases size really does matter. and as far as finding a women that likes your size is really tough to do. almost nearly impossible. bottom line is that most guys are never really gonna know the truth as to whether or not there girlfriends are satisfied with there penis.

[Yossarian]

You're right that they wont ever know for certain but by the smae token they wont ever know if their girlfriend/wife genuinely thinks they are attractive, or funny or any of the other things that the relationship depends on.

I did say in a lot of cases size does matter but how much depends on the individual woman.  SOme just prefer huge, no doubt about it but I think that number might be smaller than you think and there's almost as much bravado about penis size with women as men these days.

Obviously nothing can be proved with one piece of anecdotal evidence but one thing sticks in my head.  

In my extended group of friends there's a girl who always made a big thing about size, saying how much she liked big and using the issue to put guys down.  She slept with her best friend's boyfriend and went on to tell everyone how small he was and wondered how her friend could stick with him.  As the years passed more and more such incidents occured and eventually they both left their partners for each other.

Now, if she was as big a size queen as she made out would she really have sacrificed her firendship and left her boyfriend for this guy?  Alternatively, he might not have been as small as she made out and was only doing it to hurt him.

Either way there's a lot of **** talked about this subject and I dont think one rule applies to all women across the world.  

[marra315]

yes i can say its hard to find a good woman but i can honestly say if i never had a penis again it would not bother me , its what he does else where that counts for me and it would be for any girl that really counts .yes some girls are shallow but when one girl loves you ,she loves you not your penis . you need to get a good tecqnic with what you do have and to honest most of you sound like you have more than enough .you only use 5 inches anyway any more is a waste .i work for a sex toy company that sells to women only,and its about 30 women a week that i am in contact with on a 1 to 1 basis  in hteir own home and 90% of them even with a toy want clit stim and not a hugh shaft as to be honest it dosnt really do that much for us ! sorry to let you down but you dont even need a penis . lol

[hahahahahahaha]

my name is karl

and my penis is only 5 inch's and i am 14 is that big or tiny 4 my age and when i am not hard it seems really smalll i nearly wank everynight and i am not ashamed (is that bad)and yer please write back everyone thanks heaps karl

[hahahahahahaha]

is u r cicicumsised does that mean ur **** is smaller or bigger.cuz i think un circumsized dicks r ugly and u have to clean all the dirt and **** behind the skin and that yuck man

[Finn_555]

Hi my name is Finn,

I am 17 and my penis is really tiny!!!
Its about 3 1/2 inches on the flop and about 5 inches hard!!!
My balls have not dropped.
And i have NEVER had a wet dream.
Ive had pubic hair since 12 - 13 and armpit hair since 13 - 14.
I masturbate regularly, generally at least 3 - 4 times a week.
I see friend of mine who are 2 years younger and they are really large.
I coming up to 18 and am really scared that im still gona be tiny!!!
I have read plenty of other peoples comments saying that size doesnt matter and that everything will happen in time and will be ok but i am so so scared!
I honestly dont no what to do!!!
Someone help me!!!
Please!!! =(

[Jamie07]

I wanted to know if im small or average, my penis is 6" long and 4 1/2" thick?

[Dario2rnr]

Men who ARE NOT circumsized have much more enjoyable sex because the penis head retains it's mucouse membraine status is much more sensitive.

[Dario2rnr]

Take a look at those poor dudes who have "micro penis" and "burried penis" syndrome and you will be gratefull for what you have. When you find the right woman she will be happy, too.

[Dario2rnr]

Yes, there is a way to de-circumsize yourself...Dr Deen Edell talks about it on the radio sometimes. Basically, you pull on the skin around the head on a daily basis, often, until the skin stretches and covers the head. This is the same thing that happens when those African woman put those big earings in their ears, and slowely add bigger ones untill the earlobes become huge. There is also another African tribe that streach the outer lips of the vagina untill they hang down  and simulate a penis.

[Finn_555]

Yes but will i ever develop...?
Or am i going to have to live with my tiny self forever! =S
As i said im 17 an my balls havent even dropped!!!
Ther must be something wrong!!!
I just feel like im gona feel really really **** forever!!!
And im to scared to even think about trying to find a woman as i am!!!
Ther has to be something seriously wrong with me and its really killing me!!!
And i do feel bad 4 those guys to!
But rite now im so so so concerned about myself!!!

[greg is the name]

im 15 and my girl friend say my penis is to big is there a way i make my **** smaller right now its 11 inchs and she said about 8 i need help!!

[greg is the name]

I have one more question is there a way i can curve my penis

[dk911]

Hi, my names david im 13 my penis is 6"(100mm) long on Hard   2"(40mm) Wide on Hard my balls are dropped i can *** as we call it witch is basicle when i shoot semen but im woried if i am normal with the size i ike this girl and if we go serius im scared i will disapoint her can some1 help me

~DK

[L34NN3]

Guys who say that penis size matters are talking rubbish! I have had a boyfriend with a large penis and it hurt! I think that guys with big ones use it to compensate for poor technique (not all of course). My current boyfriend (who is soon moving in with me - woo hoo!) has the smallest penis of all of my exes (I have had 5 partners) but is the only one to make me orgasm! It is all about technique whether the penis is large or small.

A few tips.

- If you have a large penis do not enter a girl until she is dripping wet or she WILL BE IN PAIN!

- If you have a large penis try to be gentle with doggy style - IT CAN HURT.

- If you feel you have a small penis doggy style is probably best as you can get deep penetration.

- During sex if you stimulate a girls clitoris she is more likely to orgasm. If she does orgasm during sex her muscles will clamp down on you really hard and she will go tight so at that point it wont feel loose. You will get better stimulation yourself if you please your partner.

- Girls are more likely to comment on poor technique than penis size. And technique can be improved.

- Ask a girl what she likes - not all are the same.

PS there is a lot of bull on here about penis size - 5 1/2 inches erect is average (with 3 1/2 soft). This info is from a survey where the guys were measured rather than stating their measurements themselves (and making it up...). It was a survey measuring 2500.

So guys don't feel bad.

PPS The guy who uses lube and spit - this is perfectly normal. You wont have a problem with sex as is wet hee hee.

PPPS The guy who's balls haven't dropped - some guy have tight balls. As long as they are not in the abdomen then they have dropped. If you have a ball in you abdomen get you GP to check it out as it can be sorted really easily. If you leave it it can cause medical problems (without wanting to alarm you)

And another PPS - it sounds like all of you guys on here are pretty anverage really.

[supersingh123]

im a guy and put it this way it doesnt matter what size your penis is, obviously some girls want a realy big one because thats what satisfy's them. A girls average vagina size is 4.5 inches they say so if a **** is 4.5 inches it can still fit in, the average size of 5.1 inches is therefore fine if your 6 inches its better and the bigger the **** then the better. Some girls on the other hand do not like big dicks, just like some guys dont like big **** its just a fact of life

think of it this way, ther will be guys out ther that are getting laid with a **** that is 4 inches so dont worry about it...6 inches is PERFECT up to 9inches id say thats best above is just to much

iv even askd a few girls and they say that they prefer a **** 6inches, but they said they must like the guy obviously so to them size doesnt realy matter its the guys personality that matters so if your a kwl guy with a small nob or a guy that has no personality bt has a big dik YOUR BOTH GONNA GET LAIDD .....hope this comment relieves you all of stress about the size of you penises ;)

[crazywillie]

This thread has become a bit of a joke, everyone knows that a small penis can satisfy a woman so long as the owner knows how to use it, having said that finding a guy with a big one that knows how to use it is even better, I have been with women that have never experienced an orgasm while a guy is inside her, most put this down to the fact that many guys are like Rabbits they jump on and when finished jump off, thus leaving the woman high and dry ,I believe women can be satisfied by any size penis so long as their partner takes the time to love them instead of treating them like a piece of meat, when done properly  performing oral sex can bring a woman to a massive climax, this in itself can get a guy worked up and add to the overall experience, I sometimes wish I had a smaller penis, when my wife performs oral sex on me sha cant fit it all in, just remember guys dont act like Buggs Bunny, think of the woman as well as yourselves, they will love you like nothing on earth.

[sueve24smooth]

i am 9 inches and most girls say i hurt them and say im good but i need to slow down a bit is dat normal or am i to big for???