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pron and ED

My boyfriend of two years has had no interest in sex the entire time we have been together. I reccently found porn in the pocket of his work jeans. he claims someone at work told him to check the site out... I wouldnt mind except he doesnt know how to make love only have porn sex... can you men out there tell me what you think?
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Sounds like he's keeping himself satisfied thru self-pleasure. He love his hand more than he loves you.
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219241 tn?1413541365
My boyfriend of 10 years has a similar problem. He is never interested in sex, though he does have some nice images of big boobied ladies on his computer! His problem is because he is a vegetarian and eats far too much soy product. This has an oestrogenising effect dulling the sexual drive.

The other issue for me and he is that I am very much like his mother to look at, and of course, that is going to an issue.

For you it might be a good idea to sit him down and ask in a non-confronting way (as I did) something like, "I find you very sexually attractive and I am sad to see you aren't feeling the same way to me. Is there something I am doing wrong?"  That's how I found out I am too much like his mum, after he dug out photos and I spoke to people about his mum (she died the year before I met him) plus the soy problem. I learned to live with it, I don't like it,but he is still affectionate.

Good luck
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