I can't make a specific recommendation without knowing you but the best way to handle anxiety is to become a more conscious and aware person who deals directly with challenges, rather than avoiding them. If you can learn how to accept your interior life, you will find that you can roll through an anxiety episode, and learn something about yourself, and get a perspective on the scary images your mind creates that are not real predictions of danger.
So anyways I would like to encourage you by saying, I guess is to , yes, be aware of what is going on inside of yourself and see if it stands the "truth" test. Is there something going on physically your doc will know that or is it just fear telling you you are not better yet. I would think your doc would be a help in that and you will have someone more knowlegeable than yourself so talk to.
I do struggle with facing issues and in my condition I dont even want to answer the telephone.....it is too stressful to make decisions....I am on Paxil now for 6 days and have not felt anything really different yet. I am hoping I will. There is a book called "90 day Immune System Makeover by Janet Maccaro (web site by Janet Maccaro) that has helped me greatly and another book called "Adrenal Fatigue" by James L. Wilson that centres on anxiety. But I think you are past that...it might just your fears now chasing you. Stand Still and look at it and see what it really is.
I hear you also saying that you have "exam" and that does not help...so maybe stay on meds till this is over and then go off them but the doc will be more of an expert. I am not an expert...trust me on this. I am just finding my way.
I've been reading Peter Breggin's book YOUR DRUGS MIGHT BE YOUR PROBLEM and have been finding it amazingly helpful. The medical people I work with have also said that what I am going through is most likely withdrawal and not the old problems coming back, but it's still uncomfortable (to say the least!) and I have to keep telling myself that it is temporary.
Breggin's book is also helpful for helping you to come up with a plan of how to come off of meds in a slow and safe way.
Good luck!
laura gail