My husband is showing signs of depression. He is completely overwhelmed with EVERYTHING. He is gaining alot of weight, he doesn't want to go anywhere, and he is ALWAYS crabby. I try to be very sensitive, but I also have 3 kids that I am trying to be very conscious of. He does not want to go to the doctor, he doesn't want to be on medicine, he won't exercise (he says there is no time)....... HELP-I am at a loss!