I don't know how old your daughter is, and it does make some difference...There are two
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Major-gesic explanations for this kind of behavior...one is a post ictal
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Delirium as a result of the epileptic experience..and the other is a kind of emotional dissassociation, a kind of defense mechanism in response to the physical surprise of the epileptic attack....a good neurologist should be able to sort that out with you.
It could be that they are two separate issues.
I think you should be getting specialist consults (neurological and psychological/ psychiatric). Therapy may help her learn to .. not even sure how to phrase it ...learn coping skills, gain confidence ... there are so many different ways it could potentially help her. I would definitely follow-up with the neurologist though. Or maybe a neuro-psychiatrist?? I'm not entirely sure about the specialty field.