It must be difficult suffering from the anxiety and phobia that you report. I recommend that you discuss your concerns with your family physician, and request for his/her help in facilitating your referral to a psychiatrist. Phobias and other anxiety disorders are treatable with a combination of cognitive-behavioral therapy and medications. If Xanax makes you feel groggy, the dose may be decreased to half a tablet (0.125 mg), or other less sedating medications tried (e.g. Zoloft, Celexa, Prozac, etc).
racing heartbeat and other anxieties before having my blood
pressure taken. I was put on a very low dose of Inderal,
only 10 milligrams 3 times per day, I think, and it worked
wonders, not only for that, but for calming the racing heartbeat
which always occured before any other situation in which I
might be observed, or evaluated. I think most people who have
real high blood pressure take at least 80 mg per day, and
some alot more for migraines and other things. All I can
say is that very low dose of Inderal helped more than I ever
believed possible, and my blood pressure readings have been
normal ever since. Best of Luck and Hang in there.