These diagnoses come in all colors and shapes, so lets talk about the underlying phenomenon. When a person sees"danger" in a situation, they avoid it, or if in it, or anticipate it, they are anxious. The "danger" can be situation specific, like parties but not work, and that means that it is dating and rejection of romance that is the danger, not talking to people, so yes you can be gregarious at work because dating is not the issue.
YOu can definitely get over this phenomenon...it is learned to begin with and can be unlearned through therapy, experimentation and sometimes medication assistance.
If untreated, and the person doesn't struggle to change it, it can have a big effect on the shape of a person's life, and close off a lot of important options.
If you or your friend want online help, you can go to www.masteringstress.com
i was diagnosed with multiple personalities, also with suicidal depression. i was seeing a counslor but my parents wont let me go any more.they also wont let me get on any medications.
and i seem to be getting worse. they wont let me see my boyfriend any more and he's the one thing that i live for. i've tryed talking to my parents but they dont want to listen. i dont eat any more. what do i do? please help me.
~Jenn~