Hello- I took 50mg of
Zoloft for about ten years and my
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Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex drive was still great (just a bit of delayed
orgasmOrgasmic dysfunction). I never really considered that I shouldn't take it; I just did it faithfully all that time. Last
summerSummers eve anti-itch I decided I might not need it (life was going very well) and tapered off rather quickly. Within a month I was in the most unreal and debilitating depression of my life. It was a nightmare. I was really on
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Gangrene
Liver cell death
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Sudden infant death syndrome's doorstep and could barely get out of bed. Worry and anxiety were rampant. I tried to get back on
Zoloft with my doc's advice but even after going up to 100mg it wasn't helping with such a severe depression. And my sex drive at 100mg was dead (either from the zoloft or the depression or both). After many drug changes over the last six or seven months, I am finally stable with Remeron 30mg, and still trying to pick up the pieces from the "train wreck" of depression I went through (still have a tough time) via therapy and hard work. One problem remains from all this that even my pscychiatrist cannot solve-- My sex drive has been practically gone since the beginning of the deep part of the depression last summer. It was VERY healthy on zoloft all those years. Now, when I am only on Remeron I have little to no urges and problems with weak erections and awful premature ejaculation. When the doc augmented the Remeron with Celexa, it helped with the premature ejaculation but killed my desire even more. We are stumped as to how to get my desire back while also getting rid of this premature ejaculation problem. I am about to suggest going back on 25 mg Zoloft with a bit of Wellbutrin (while staying on Rememeron), although we have been trying to avoid the anxiety from meds like this, and my doctor thinks the zoloft (or any other ssri) will kill my sex drive even more. He doesn't seem to understand the weak erections and premature ejaculation problems, especially when I tell him I had neither on Zoloft all those years. Needless to say this has been hell on my relationship, going from a healthy sex drive to having little desire and wondering if I'll ever be normal again.
Did my sex drive shut down for good after I came off Zoloft after ten years? How can I get it back, as it doesn't seem to be there whether I am on or off an SSRI? Is it possible that my mental wiring has been altered to the point that I can't get back to where I was?
In any case, the main thing is weighing out if you need the meds for your particular problems, or if you can survive without them. My suggestion, dont keep taking them if your only reason is that you are afraid of the withdrawls. Oh, and try a new doctor - a second opinion is always a good idea i have found!
Hope this helps...
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For me, I cannot "get it up" with a forklift.
Thankfully, I have a loving and understanding wife and her and I find amusing ways to entertain ourselves despite my limp self.
I still get aroused but only fully firm and hard just prior to the explosion. Doesn't make for a great evening.
Yea...it sucks big time.
Viagra...no help.
Cialis...no help.
Levitra...no help.
But nothing some good tender loving from a great wife can't fix. Just have to learn to adopt new strategies to fulfillment.
Besides, its fun to learn new things.
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Basically what all that led up to is this. I've been stupid and missed a dose or two here and there. You have to be VERY careful with this stuff. I've had to miss classes because of missing doses. My biggest withdrawl symptoms are dizzyness and what I call "strobe-lighting." If anyone of you has been anywhere near a strobe light then you know what I mean. You see one thing and then move you head and see something else in a series of photo-type sensations. Normally, I have to miss three doses to get like this...but I can't drive, can't stand for long, feel like I'm in a fog, etc. A few hours after I take my medicine again I'm back to normal. BE CAREFUL!
I hate being hooked on this stuff (even though everything official I've read says that it is "non-habit forming"...that's a lie...).
It really helped me when I was going through a very hard time but I think I'm about to talk to my doctor and have her either help me switch to something else or try living without any form of antidepressants for a while. I don't have side effects...but going without it has made me realize just how dependent I am on this stuff...THAT is what scares me the most.
Wish me luck...and BE CAREFUL WITH YOURS!!!
i've probably gone through withdrawl from just FORGETTING to take it at least a dozen times. obviously this can't be to healthy...
probably the worst incident is when i was feeling incredibly dizzy and confused from the absense of the zoloft and i ended up crashing my car!
please be so careful to REMEMBER your pills :)
Am I gonna feel withdrawals after only 10 days of taking it on only 25 mg??? The last time I did take this for a long period of time was of 15 years ago and was on a higher dose so memory does not help in this case.
Takin my Ativan like I usually do could be of some help but reading a posted blog in one case of one lady taking this for only 3 days has got me a little worried. I will believe in mind over matter and will roll with it but I was just looking for maybe a bit more information from anyone...
Thankyou