Gina, it may be withdrawal, or it may be that your drinking was a form of self medication that kept your anxiety in check, and now it is being exposed. Don't go back to drinking, but before you consider anti-anxiety medication, try to make use of this opening up process and come to understand what is bubbling up for you at this time of your life...its a part of you begging to be heard, and if you can't do it alone, find a counselor.