For me, it started last July. I was fine one day and a mess the next. I had lost total control of my feeling and emotions. Normally I'm in control of these things. I'm an easy going person, I look for the good in people and rather then become agitated by others I just let it go. This thing that has me is so distructive. I only came to realise and admit to myself, this December, that I must be in a Midlife crises. This has helped in that I have know started to research and gain an understanding on what in the hell was going on. The more I read the more boxes I ticked. The younger woman has been the hardest thing to get past. My marriage has good days and bad days. It crushed my wife when I told her about the other woman. She did not cause this or deserve this. Six months on and I have much more control of my emotions. Talking in these Forums has helped greatly and many thanks to Mami. A lot of what I have read from other woman's experiences is that the partners leave saying that they, "love them but are not in love with them". I feel this way too but I reckonise that I am still not over everything and therefore I do not wish to act on these feelings. I also must move on from this other woman. She also is not to blame and I am lucky that she has distanced herself from me.
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