Sorry for your loss..Yes Iv talked to him and since he talked to his Aunt he has been better..I just hurt so bad cause I know my chances are slim because of my age. Also cause my Boyfriend already told me he is going to get a vasectomy! So insensitive I swear!! Iv since been to Dr. and they I still have tissue!!! They have given me meds to pass the remaining tissue but if it doesnt work I will have to have another D&c! Ughh I dont want to! I have been through enough already!! :-( I have also gone to a therapist n he says I am a very sensitive person
n I just need time to grieve.. Thank you for taking the time to answer me..
Im sorry for your loss. This might sound silly but have you tried to talking to your boyfriend about how your feeling? Men handle their emotions differently so Id say he is confused and upset and might be unsure how to talk to you without accidentally upsetting you, its good that he's spoken to his aunt to try to understand how she felt, it shows he's trying to understand how to be there for you.
Time will help you to feel better but your right, everyone grieves differently. Talking definitely helps and so does a good cry but getting back out into the world helps immensely, maybe you can speak to your boss and ask if there is another job you can do for abit until your more confidant.
I'm currently going through my second miscarriage so I can relate to how your feeling, its heart breaking and confusing but you will start to feel better, it just takes times.