1st Miscarriage :(

I found out today that i had a missed miscarriage in Feb and didn't expect it at all. He said i was probably around 4-6 weeks according to my dates. When i heard i couldn't stop crying. I hope our angel baby will send us a little brother or sister for us to look after. I know it was in Feb but it still made me heart broken.

I was wondering how long did it take you to conceive after miscarriage?
How did you cope after miscarriage?

[feefee2010]

how did you not know you had a miscarriage ?

[Amanda999]

The dr told me all the symptoms i had was in fact to do with pregnancy then missed miscarriage.

[Aliciaw]

Im a little confused on how they didnt know you had a miscarriage until now in August? Did you go to the Dr in Feb? Did you think or even know you were pregnant?

[dscoqn]

I'm a bit confused too - don't they usually have to do a D&C with a missed miscarrige??  I thought a missed miscarrige meant that it didn't come away on it's own??

[Amanda999]

I had pregnancy symptoms in feb and he said that i was 4-5 weeks along so everything came out itself and my body was still getting over it and that's why i haven't conceived yet.

[aowens]

so from what im reading...you didnt know you were even pregnant in feb??

and the doctor just now told you that you were pregnant...and im assuming that you are wondering why you havent gotten pregnant yet and when you will?

[Amanda999]

im just wondering how long it has taken people to get pregnant after a miscarriage, i know it will happen in it's own time.

[aowens]

Everyone is different....After my miscarriage in April I waited a cycle and I got pregnant again at the end of May...I however did miscarry again in June....

[Aliciaw]

I had a miscarriage due to a blighted ovum in March. I had 3 cycles and fell pregnant again. I am currently 9w4d went to the Doctor August 3rd. and got to see baby and heart beat this time. Just take things slow and try not to stress about it. Have you had a regular cycle since the miscarriage? I am guessing so since it's been so long. If not then something else is wrong.

[Amanda999]

Sorry to hear you both had miscarriages.

Ye it's been regular, gonna bd everyday around ovulation so hope it'll work.

[Jenhottie]

I had a m/c in august & got pregnant again in october.

[jane8760]

hi im in alot of pain and really confused i know i i am pregnant or at least was iv started to bleed and im cramping really bad but this has happened the day after my missed period yestday i havent bled like this ever but my last two periods were really light and only for two days but i had a negative pregnancy test last month i already have two beautiful boys so know i am very lucky but i just dony know what to do ??

[Amanda999]

That's what i felt when i miscarried but i couldn't walk with the pain. Go and see your dr hun. In the month before i had 8 - tests.

[marymoonu]

I had a miscarriage on May 26th between 7 and 8 weeks pregnant, tried again right away and got a positive pregnancy test on July 2nd.  I'm 9 weeks 1 day now, but after some spotting yesterday/today, I'm starting to get a little scared again.  I don't want to go through another miscarriage.

[StephRox13]

Amanda999, I just wanted to let you know my miscarriage must've been similar to yours so I know what your saying. I won't get into whole story but if hadn't been in ER for something totally unrelated to being pregnant I wouldnt have known that I was prego. so when I did miscarry at around 3 weeks pg , I would've just thought my miscarriage was a heavy, painful period my PCOS, crazy, out of wack body was going thru.......not being far enough along for normal early detection home pg kits to detect pregnancy if you miscarry like I did when I did, you wouldn't even know your pg to know your miscarrying instead of having a "heavy" period........