3 Weeks Sudden bleeding Did i Miscarry? HELP ME PLEASE

[ThanyP]

my last period was February 9, 2011 and i have pretty regular periods lasting 5 days so it ended 2/13/11. On 2/18/11 my "bf" forced himself on me and a week later i started feeling really weird woke up feeling extreme nausea, had loss of appetite for a few days i couldn't eat and when  did i felt full right away i started urinating more frequently i had light daily cramps for a few days then i had a sore throat for two days (noting serious though) and i had extreme fatigue i was tired all day long but couldn't sleep because of work so i had to force my eyes to stay open but when i got home i fall immediately asleep as time went on i started getting lower back ache very faint but unusual for me a few days i had minor headaches also unusual for me. One morning i woke up with such bad cramping and nausea i shouldn't get out of bed to go to work so i had to call out. I didn't see a doctor because i don't have insurance but i KNEW i was pregnant. I decided to wait the 28 days to see if my period would come which would have been about 3/9/11 but it did not show up i waited a few more days and nothing so i decided to wait another week before taking a HPT.... On days 10 of my missed period i took two pregnancy test both showed up negative so i read up on why my period was so late and it said it happens to women at least ONCE in their lifetime i found that strange but figured ok. on day 13 of my missed period (a monday) i began to have sore breast something that hasn't happened to me before the nipples were very sensitive but i figured if i really was pregnant that was to be expected. The day after (day 14) i started having light cramping in my stomach along with some lower back ache i tried to stay off my feet all day and just rest and relax since i wasn't working at about 11am after i used the bathroom i noticed some blood on my panties it wasnt heavy but it was enough for me to worry so i went online to search but it said if it didnt fill a pad an hour and wasn't bright red i was ok it wasn't that much blood so i showered and put a pad on to monitor the blood and checked it an hour there was more blood  but not enough to remotely fill the pad and the cramping although NOT worse then period pain was a bit stronger i checked my new pad again and the blood was now bight red but not alot of blood i used the bathroom and when i wiped little clots showed up i didn't know what to do so i waited it out. Later that night or early the next morning it was at 2am i woke up and just couldn't go back to sleep so i jumped in the shower again and just tried to let the warm sprays relax me as i was showering i saw a clot hit the bottom of the tub i picked it up and it was grayish in color and (TMI) i sniffed it and it smelt like meat no other way to describe it but the red clots just smelt like blood. as i laid back down i realized the cramping stopped i just want to know if i MISCARRIED....  there are some more details i'm leaving out but i'm just worried i don't know why since i wasn't even sure i was going to keep it but just knowing it died like that is so sad to me and i can't stop crying....
the whole situation occurred in about over a month Feb 18 was the day of intercourse and March 22 was the day i started bleeding march 23 the day i passed the grayish clot and today march 24 im still bleeding but its still light not enough to fill  pad and the cramping (very light cramps) come and go as well as the light lowers back pains.... did i lose the baby ? ? ? ? was i even pregnant ? ? ? ? i dont now but i'm an emotional wreck i dont know what i did to hurt it if i was pregnant....and after all he's done the jerk "dumped me" with a text message....

[mhv]

It may be a hormonal thing right now, or being stressed, everyone is late at one point in there life.   I can't explain the clot, other then it may have been your body trying to start af.  A HPT can dectect small levels of HSG in your system, so again even if you had m/c'd, it would have detected levels until they were back to zero.  But, honestly, we all at one point or another have strange things happen with our bodies.  If it would make you feel better, you could call your doc... best I am pretty confident that things are ok.  Good Luck : )

[ThanyP]

thank your for responding but can you explain the grayish clot thing that has NEVER happened to me before and i've also NEVER been late on my period especially not by 13 days and the nausea and lower back pain has never been associated with my period either i don't know if i was stressing myself out because of the incident but i'm really worried should i get checked out ? ? ? ?

[mhv]

A pregnancy test would have shown a positive if you were pregnant.  It sounds like you were just late on your period.  Which, with the bf you had, sounds like a blessing.  Hang in there... things will get better.

[ThanyP]

hey its me again... SORY its so long bt PLEASE take the time to read it ALL ! ! !



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