3 miscarriages

[april51885]

I have had 3 loses in a little under 2 yrs. My first 2 were an empty sacs. This last one i got to see the baby and heart beat. The heart beat was a little slow but had improve the next day a little. Went back to the doc one wk later and there was no heart beat. I feel like it is something im doing even throw i know its not. The doc wants to run test now. what should i expect?  

[megancannon]

i read your post. my doctors tested me for that after i lost my daughter, but it was negative

[yourfriend85]

I was only suggesting that if the husband was abusive, well, you can see where I'm coming from. April, if you ever want to talk you can post to me. I recently left my husband, I might have found a better man and who knows, maybe he can help me have a child as I had 3 miscarriages too.  My husband was a good man, I just didn't feel it for him.  

[5angelsinheaven]

Look at the post mystery solved... I had 5 miscarriage then I was diagnosed.. I now have a beautiful 4 year old.

[megancannon]

stress will not cause a miscarriage. any doctor will tell you that. if your stressed out, crying or yelling all the time it will not cause you to miscarry.

[yourfriend85]

Sorry if I sent this so many times, I was wondering, did you consider having the dad tested.  It's just a thought.  Also, what was the stress level during all of these.  Just things to consider.

[april51885]

All from bthe same dad. The only thing different i have done is that i was on the birthcontroll shot. I really think that has something to do with it. I have asked the docs aboutthat and they all say no.

[megancannon]

are the two healthy boys from a different father than the 3 losses?

[april51885]

What my docs dont understand it that i have two healthly boys already.

[megancannon]

i recently lost my third baby and for the past 9 months i have had countless tests. the tests i got may be a little different from the ones they will do on your because my losses have been different (i went into pre-term labor with my 1st, my son was born at 20 weeks and died shortly after, miscarried at 5 weeks with my second and with my third i went into pre-term labor again and my daughter was still born.) but, some of the tests i had done were blood clotting tests, different tests to check for autoimmune disorders, a chromosome analysis on my husband and i and to be honest, so much stuff i don't remember without look at my records.

a chromosome analysis is probably a good idea for you, as problems with chromosomes are the leading cause of early miscarriages. if you are not given this, i would defintely ask for it.

a lot of women except an answer, i did and still do. but unfortunately, a lot of times that answer never comes. my doctors still have not found anything. so don't be discouraged if everything comes back normal, keep pushing and do lots of research. good luck.