Been a year since m/c, and still not pregnant

[MelliMel18]

So i miscarried on 9/29/07, almost a year, and i am still not pregnant.  What could be wrong?  I plan on seeing my doc the 13th for my annual check up, and i am hoping he can give me some answers.  Is this normal?  Could something be wrong?  I got pregnant after 3 months of trying, and now nothing.  This is making me very depressed, and fear the worst is wrong with me. Has this happened to anyone before?

[jacquiedl]

This process of "trying" is very frustrating.  It took us 1.5 years to get pregnant and then I had to have a D&C in August- pregnancy was not viable.  I am trying to be positive about the future, but i must admit my disappointment is overwhelming.  I would suggest getting some tests done to check on things.  Good Luck.

[MelliMel18]

Thanks so much for those kind words.  I appreciate it. It is very frustrating, and i am  out of ideas. I do hope my doc know what to do. I am sure he will. I was checking my BBT and charting every thing. But i gave up 6 months after the m/c. I became very discouraged and depressed. Couldn't take the disappointment anymore. I hope there is nothing wrong, and all i need is some time. We will see.  Thanks!

[Dani711]

I know how frustrating this can be.  I have been trying again for 5 months and nothing.   I know it has not been a year, but the waiting is killing me.  Are you doing the ovulation testing?  I am continuing on the prenatel vitamins and prescribtion folic acid and treating my body as if it were pregnant.  I do know alot of people that it just takes a while.  I was actually at a bbq yesterday where this couple had a 6 year old girl, a five year old girl and a one year old girl.  They had tried everything for 6 years to have a child, even fertilility drugs and injections.  Finally they gave up after 5 years and then she got pregnant.  It is so hard to tell why.  Your dr. well know more.  I just wanted to tell you that you are not alone.  Good luck!