Depression

[lovingmyfamily252011]

I just recently found out my pregnancy had to end bc it was ectopic I cry all the time just feel so sad is this normal?

[devy1014]

I too have been in your shoes I lost my son at 21 weeks and till this day I still dont want to get out of bed and stop talking to friends who were pregnant at the same time I was.  I am going to lose my second son.  I am currently pregnant with right now and I was told he has a deadly fatal kidney disease and  I haven't lost him yet but I am scared to death that I don't know how I am going to deal with this.  So I am letting you know your not alone and what your feeling is not wrong

[lovingmyfamily252011]

Im so sorry for ur lost as well im glad I have people going through what I am thanks si much

[BeeHopeful]

I know how you sad you feel and have been crying these past 2 weeks for the loss of my baby.  Everyone says that time will heal this pain but I don't know how to stop thinking about the baby that I lost.  Crying alone makes me feel better for now.  I am so sorry for your loss and want you to know that you are not alone.

[lovingmyfamily252011]

Thanks everyone for ur words of encouragement im so sad just when I feel I cant cry my eyes fill with tears

[ku111]

You just suffered a terrible loss.  People grieve differently.  There is no right or wrong.  I am sad for you.  Talk to your OBGYN about how you are feeling.  Your hormones are probably wacky which doesn't help anything.  Keep your family and friends close.  Surround yourself with positive things.  I wish you the very best.

[frank_noahsmommy]

Yes Honey it is so normal. I have had 6 m/c and I cry each and every time. There are days where all I want to do is curl up in a ball and cry and cry.
I am so sorry you are going through this. Grieve and mourn the loss of your baby and don't let anyone tell you not to. Many people do not understand what it is like, but most everyone of us on here has had it happen once or more.

(((HUGS))) Michelle