Why is it when you suffer this loss that everybody around you is pregnant, there are pregnant women everywhere, i try to keep myself away from seeing pregnant women at the moment but they just seem to be all over, even in my little wee new zealand town
i misscarried only 4 weeks ago, a much longed for baby i started bleeding at 8 weeks but wasnt worried coz i bled with my girl but had to go in to have anti-d shot anyway they scanned me and they couldnt find the pregnancy but blood tests the week before confirmed the pregnancy so i had more bloods done which showed dropped hcg levels and baby passed later on that day, i have had a really hard time dealing with it because the scan couldnt find anything but "an empty uterus" so i dont know where baby was but it came out later that day..im still really confused the doctors just say these things happen but that actually doesnt help me to get through it because i dont know what happened..its hard to talk to anyone because people dont feel the loss like i did.. i was only 8 weeks but it was my baby to me when i took that first test..im holding onto the great feelings i had when i first peed on that stick and for the following 3 weeks after that when i was sooo happy to be pregnant.......
your so not alone, and i gotta say i feel like im coping better now, im still so deeply sad but i talk about it and i find that is helping me when people understand how really sad i am and that i have experienced a deep loss..
So sorry to hear that ribaby15 :( i actually started spotting on Wednesday night around 11pm and kept spotting all yesterday and today no cramps or anything yet its really light (pinky colour) been getting a really sore back now and then, think I've accepted whats going on now, thank you for your lovely comments.
I found out I had a missed m/c at 5wks a few yrs ago - after checking my hcg levels and they were falling, they said to prepare for the worst. it took almost a full month to pass everything.
it all came out at once, thankfully. no clots or anything, just one big 'sac' i'll call it. cause everything was still intact - although I didn't look at it. I felt in the toilet with my hands, I know TMI.
so sorry you're going through this :( I just recently lost my son at 14wks in September, things will get easier. I use that term lightly :(
I had a embryonic pregnancy back in September. I miscarried naturally at 11 wks.. I'm wishing u all the best, but if things go badly just know you'll make it through.. Others out there have, like me.
I will be praying for you, everything will be ok. :-)
Thank you very much, i'm staying positive although it's really hard :(
I just want to say stay strong and I'm praying for you and for a positive outcome