I can't get over my misscarrrige..?In January I was raped by my (ex) boyfriend. He got me pregnant, but I found out after I broke up with him. I never told him, but it didn't matter at the end because my little one ended up leaving me by miscarriage. I know that everything happens for a reason and that It would've been difficult carring for a baby "caused by abuse and assault," but you'll always wonder what they looked like for who they would've became. Seeing pregnant woman really pulls on my heartstrings too. I am happy for them but I wish I could be pregnant too. Is there anything that makes this better? What can I do to remember the loss? For example I threw away the pregnancy tests, but is there anything else I can do that physically relates it? I know that sounds weird, but I just need closure..