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3242317 tn?1346785004

I miscarried...

I would have been 8 weeks 3 days today but I miscarried. Some jerk rushing made me fall in a crowd he didn't even apologize and the next morning blood was everywhere. I went to the ER and I got the news. Words can't explain how torn up am on the inside and outside. Why me why my baby? I just why to curl up in a ball away from the world.
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you all and Amy I won't be fearful of that happening again. I'm just going to think positive.
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3224333 tn?1349315545
dont let your hopes fall off the ground. we are here praying for you.. i know how it feels to lose your precious one. been there! just pray always
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1752977 tn?1418221796
I think that has to be one of the worst things about early pregnancy. When it isn't obvious so the stranger beside you they have no compassion. I mean, knocking someone over doesn't make it okay if they aren't pregnant but being early in pregnancy when it's not visibly obvious makes it that much harder. I hope when you do get pregnant again, that because of that inconsiderate a-hole it doesn't stop you from going in public again for the fear of the same thing happening.
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you so much
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I am so truly sorry for your loss. I also know what you are going through. It is a devestating loss, if u need anything please let me know. I misscarried my son in March.
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I am so truly sorry for your loss. I also know what you are going through. It is a devestating loss, if u need anything please let me know. I misscarried my son in March.
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you Rachel...and Amy it was him as soon as he hit me my insides started to pain and the doctor told me from the bruises in my stomach it was forced trauma so I didn't blame him it was FACT.
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1752977 tn?1418221796
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know as natural instinct, we wanna know the cause right away. So, we find any and all situations to blame. What that guy did, wasn't right. But, it is highly unlikely that caused your miscarriage. At 8 weeks your uterus is still tucked and safe behind your pubic bone. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you that but, odds are the miscarriage was inevitable.
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1994832 tn?1484866272
I am sorry this has happened to you. It's understandable that your angry and upset. Losing  a baby leaves you feeling angry, empty, hurt and u feel ur future has been robbed from you. Theses feeling are part of the greiving process and in time u will slowly heal.

That guy was out of order for pushing u and not helping you,  However, some people are very angry and stressed in there lives and they lack consideration for others, but if he knew the damage and pain he caused you, am sure he would feel very bad. We live in a fast and stressful world now days and we tend to forget the effect of our actions towards others. Please try not to hold onto this anger forever, because ur suffering will be more intense.

I lost my baby this Jan & had to have the D&C, and I have just recently lost my baby again for the 2nd time. Yes am gutted and upset but I realised that it's out of my control and hopefully oneday things may work out.  Most women who have 1 miscarriages are normally fine on the 2nd attempt, but I suppose I have just been very unlucky :-(

Keep urself busy and be kind to yourself :-)


Love Rachel
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I recently(8/22) lost my lil gurl at 22+5.. so i defibutely no the pain ur going through.. message me anytime hun...
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3198629 tn?1367038423
I'm sorry for your loss.. That's terrible.. I felt the same way when I first found out that I had lost my baby in August... you can message me anytime if you feel like talking. My wounds are fresh, I'm still trying to heal but maybe we can help each other.. I'm sending you my love.xxx
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you for all the support...I needed it
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Im sorry to hear about your loss, I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks with my.1st pregnancy I understand the pain you are going through. Simetimes words are nothing. As for that ************ who pushed you hell get his karma always comes back....God Bless
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I'm so sorry for ur lost.  I have been thru thos as well ....2 times at that.  I misscarried n 2010 and Dec 2011. For me, it helped me 2 talk 2 people that actually had been thru it. Please feel free 2 message me if u need 2 talk.  I will definitely keep u and ur family n my prayers!!
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you
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I am so sorry to hear that! I can't believe someone pushed you and kept walking even after you fell...I had a miscarriage back in January so I understand your pain. I hope everything works out okay for you. again I am so sorry.
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you so much...I might need that
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2026433 tn?1337650833
I'm so sorry to hear that ! You're in my prayers, I also had a miscarriage last year, if you need to talk just message me.
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you both. It's really hard because it just happened over the weekend. I had my first Dr appt last Friday and that same day it happened.
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Oh my goodness..I'm so sorry hun...that's horrible...that freakin jerk!! Ugh
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I'm so sorry that happened to you! That is so awful. I'll send a special prayer for you.
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3242317 tn?1346785004
Thank you guys
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I know how you feel . Just be strong and your time will come again . Sorry for what happen.
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aww im so sorry to hear that he pushed u and u fell? thats terrible what a *******!!:(
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