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Hi ladies I'm very sad to day I lost my pregnancy I started bleeding last night Dr told me to come in this morning there was no sign of baby or heart beat. I had so many problems getting into the dr. The last time I heard a heartbeat I 10 weeks. My heart is broken.I feel like I let my husband and family down. They found a large mass on my left ovary. Im going in to surgery on Friday. I love posting all of my pregnancy issues and thought on here. Please keep me in your prayers that I can get pregnant again. Im going to be 40. In july.  Im very very sad and in alot of pain. I will miss reading everyone blog. Thank you all
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Sorry for your loss dear, I knw the pain you are feeling, lost 2 in the last 2 years due to incompetent cervix. I didn't loose hope as am 5 weeks pregnant. You will deliver your next baby, don't loose hope.
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My heart hurts for you. May God give you the peace you need to heal during this time of sorrow.
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You let no one down!  So sorry for your loss.  Be kind to yourself, it is not your fault!  (((hugs))) hoping surgery on Friday goes well.
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My prayers to you and your family. Your family and husband shouldn't and probably won't blame you. It isn't your fault. The important thing to focus on right now is recovering and preparing for surgery so that your next pregnancy won't have this risk. Take care, get rest, and try not to worry. Focus on the good in your life right now and lean on your family and husband for support. Best wishes on a healthy next pregnancy :)
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I'm so very sorry for your loss. Miscarriages are very tough - I've had two and suffered both physically and emotionally. I'm now 15 weeks age 40 so don't give up hope. Look after yourself over the coming weeks. Grieve properly for your loss and don't blame yourself. More than 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, as so many things can go wrong. It's not anyone's fault. The baby just wasn't ready for our world this time.
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I'm sorry for ur loss I loss one last June at 9w.. Keep ur faith his will bless u again. Everything happens for a reason. My doc said usually a loss is fr a chromosome issue with the baby and ur body knows n let it pass... Ur not pregnancy will be a healthy one and blessed... Don't feel like u let anyone dwn u haven't everyone will have u n there prayers!!! Sendn blessings ur way!!!
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So sorry for your loss,will keep you anf family in prayer.
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Im so sorry for your loss. Ive lost 6.  I know how it feels.  Not that you want to hear this now but don't give up. There are other options.  
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Praying for you.  
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So sorry to hear about your loss. God will definitely bless you again.
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I'm So sorry I'm pray for you. You did not let your family down at all
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Sorry for your lost. I pray and hope you will get pregnant again.  Good luck with the surgery.  God bless you.
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So sorry to hear that,I will keep you on my prayers, stay strong may God bless u
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