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Hello, I'm 38yrs old 12wks pregnant n I just found out that the Baby's been Dead inside My Womb for the Last 3wks!

Imma Nervous Wreck
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I m/c last sept at 16wks. baby measured 14.5 wks. I didn't have him til I would have been 17wks :(
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(((hugs))) sorry for your loss.
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Sadly, many of us go through that bloody awful experience. At 37 and my first pregnancy, I thought that was it and I was destined to be childless but there is still hope so don't give up! I was told it could just be a dating error and had another scan appt made for a week later but 2 days before it was due, I was on my way to work on the bike when everything came out. Devastated doesn't seem to explain quite how I felt yet here I am waiting for my (apparently) little girl to arrive. I'll admit that my fear of a repeat performance ruined any true enjoyment of this pregnancy but the joy of knowing she'll be with us soon is now easing the worry and pain a bit.
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I'm so sorry to hear that praying for you
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I miscarriage last yr but it was only a week with no heartbeat. Doc said let it pass but I opted for a d&c didn't wanna keep baby inside me any longer than I need too
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I'm sorry for your loss!!! But I have a question how is it the baby hasn't passed thru yet 3w and it hasn't come out? Did doc recommend a d&c bcuz that can become toxic inside U that long.
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I am going thru the same , went to ER yesterday and they couldn't find a heart beat and I was 8 weeks and a bit but baby was measured at 7 weeks and 2 days...  I cried and still crying.  Please know that God has taken our babies to be Angels.  They were that special and the good lord will take care of them.  I don't know if one ever get over this but please know u r in my prayers.  May the Lord comfort our hearts and give us ta gift again soon .  I just turned 40 3 days ago... I had thought this was a child of a miracle and my first.    Lots of healing to do but know that u r not alone .... We are here to support each other .  
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Very sorry for you... it happened to me 10 years ago. And I still remember how painful it is. I went for a 12 weeks scan and baby had died at 9 weeks. I hope you have someone to support you through this.
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I am so sorry to hear that but just remember God obviously had another plan for your angel. Stay strong. This event was out of your control, when you feel up to it try again! Best of luck.
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I'm sorry to hear that. I had the same thing happen to me in September.  It's hard and painful but remember you did nothing wrong there was just a reason an angel had to be made instead. They will always look out for you
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