Ah sorry to hear of your loss as it was much like mine except for me i didnt have dnc as my baby was only approx 17 weeks developed and i went to hospital and delivered him naturally he too was a boy which is exactly what i wanted and he too fit in the palm of there hand but i too dont know what happened they did testing and i still dont know the results. and i am ready to try again i cannot stand not having a pregnancy any more i am not getting any younger and wont try after 35 yrs as my mom had bad problems with my brother at 36. so i only have a couple years to go.
congrats on being 7 mths i only had 2 mths to go to get there and they could have saved baby chance hard to believe thats all i was short.
i too never saw him after delivery but they asked me if i wanted to. they did however take pics of him for me so i could look if i choose to when ready.
it was an eye opening experience i never knew how many woman go through this and i am so exstatic to hear you lost a boy and then concieved another one as i am hoping with my whole heart to bring home a son but i would be happy to just bring home a baby
well i am terrified as i never thought it happened as often as you notice on here i am a little worried to try again but i know as a woman and mother i cannot give up on my dream to have a child again and though chance wont be here physically i will never forget him his hands will be on my heart forever and i know he is watching from heaven and will help me get through this.
like i said i miss the pregnancy too as in one day i went from 5 mths pregnant to nothing feeling very empty and alone almost as if i lost my purpose in life. but i know the only way to fullfill my dream is to keep my head up and use this experience to make me stronger and move forward. and i am sure someday sitting in hospital holding a new baby i will be even more thankful i made it....thanks for all your comments it is nice to share
Honey, I am so sorry for your loss and the other ladies loses. I couldn't even imagine being that far along only to lose my baby. I was only 7 weeks and it about killed me. I am deeply saddened for all of you. I wish all of you the best. I will say, I am really scared to try again for fear of notting getting pregnant or getting pregnant and miscarrying. Big hugs and prayers sent your way.
Gosh..... i am truly so sorry for your loss.. i was off fr here about 2 3 months so i missed your post, i am off bcos of the same reason as you.. i still birth my baby Aidan at 21week last Jan 15 2012.. add to the pain he is my 5th pregnancy and the longest i have ever been. I went ahead with my life and try to move on.. is not easy i know and i can say i am truly understand how u felt about... R.I.P for your angel and please stay strong.. hugs...xxx rachel..
hello thanks for your comment for sure. This is definately a helpful site i spend most of my day at work glancing at it back and forth. i actually find it calming to read others stories as it makes me feel so not alone.
i am having difficulties with the fact it happened to me, as i said why me why not someone else but now i realized it is more then me and listening to others and how they got through it was very beneficial.
I am getting better with the loss of pregnancy but am still stuck on the fact that lost my only son. that is probably never going to go away but i have 2 daughters that look to me for everything and i cannot just shut down it has no benefit. i still struggle to get out of bed in the morning but i know that Chance my son would want me to move forward
I'm so sorry for ur loss, I hope that u can find some answers to ur questions, there are some great ladies on this site.
I have recently experienced a loss of my first pregnancy and can relate to ur feelings of wanting to conceive again very soon.
I was told that while all women are different it is thought that you can be more fertile after a loss but you should wait until the bleeding has stopped before having sex again and that some recommend waiting until after ur first period being trying to conceive.
I have read many stories of woman who have conceived quickly and some have taken abit longer.
I hope that you are feeling ok and please know that this website is a great place to share ur feelings and start the healing process.