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WELCOME TO THE MISCARRIAGE COMMUNITY!

                                                           WELCOME

This is a community full of support and understanding for those who are experiencing past or present miscarriage of for those who have loved ones or friends who may be experiecing one. Miscarriage is a very painful and emotional time. There are so many unanswered questions that we search to try to find the answers. Sometimes all we need to hear is we are not the only ones. Most of us in this community have experienced a miscarriage. That has helped this community to provide understanding and compassion to anyone who comes along. This is a safe forum where opinions may be heard and not judged. We always welcome new posts and new friends. I hope your experience in this community will be a great one. Please feel free to join everyone is welcome!

Sincerely,
Your Community Leader
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Hi everyone, I am new to the community...I just had my 3rd US this morning and my OB said that the embryo is not growing. I am supposed to be in my 10th week from my LMP. Last week's US revealed that the embryo was 5 wks  and gestational sac was 7 wks. This morning I just heard my OB talked about either to choose on waiting for a natural miscarriage or having a DCE. I guess everything have not sink in yet. I felt like he was wrong and still hoping for the best. I maybe in my first stage of grief at this time. I am glad I found this community as I was trying to find answers online. I felt relieved to know that I am not alone to have this experience just reading the posts. This is my first pregnancy ,we've been trying for almost 2 years now and I'm already 34 years old.
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1773346 tn?1314176605
Hi im new here and have suffered 4 miscarriages in 1 year, its so nice to be in a community with people who understand how i feel, alot of my friends just brush it off, tell me to cheer up and get on with it, but its not that easy. I have 3 children already and fell pregnant with them so easily, so dont understand why this time is hard. Its been over a year since my last miscarriage, we had a 6 month break and have been trying now for 7 months. But the thought of getting pregnant and losing it again scares me to death :( x
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1726707 tn?1362530938
where do I begin. I guess I can start off by saying some days are better than others. I recently suffered a miscarriage on June 30 2011 the same day that I suffered my miscarriage my DH close friend gave birth to their son and I was doing great until this weekend after he went to go and visit his friends baby I felt and still feel very angry with him . There are so many questions goin on in my head I miss talking to my cousin @ Earthangel who has been my rock throughout all this and just you know having one of those days am okay with teh lost of my baby because I believe any baby I have will be my angel baby in another body its just the lack of communication about my lost with my DH. I  wish I could just get a hug from him... Recently its become even harder as I have been experiencing alot including feeling very naucious, tired, dizzy, tender breast, insomina just not sure if this is my stress from my lost or a new pregnancy as I  have had unprotected sex since the m/c. Could I be pregnant 4 weeks after a m/c oh yea forgot to mention i had spotting for two days only in the morning last week what could this mean? I don't believe its pregnancy as I  have waayyy more symtoms than the last time help
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Hello, been lurking here alot since my first miscarriage on june 24, 2011 and this place has just helped so much, Thank you all. I'm 26 and already have 2 beautiful and healthy children who are 9 and 4. My husband and I were trying for almost a year before we became pregnant with the latest one. I surprized him on fathers day with the news and he immediatly told everyone (this would have been his 1st child, so he was excited) and it never crossed my mind that anything could happen because I already had 2 successful pregnancies.

But just a week later I started bleeding reall bad at work and was sent to ER, was there for 11 hours and the doctors were just unbelievably rude the whole time. In the end I was told to go home and be on pelvic rest for 4 days because I was having a miscarriage and there was nothing they could do. Doctor apt. 4 days later confirmed that everything was passed naturally and doctor gave us the go ahead to start trying again.

Just wanted to introduce myself and share my story. Im praying that it doesnt take another year to get pregnant again.
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You are so young and strong and you will have another. I have a story, not quite the same and maybe it will help. My mother had her first born, a son, in 1977. When he was a year old he was diagnosed with neuroblastoma, a cancer in the brain. He died November of 1979. My mom was scared to death to have another child, go through all the pain again, but her doctor told her this: The worst thing would be to deny yourself the happiness of having another child. You have so much love to give and don't let a tragedy stop yourself from experiencing the greatest joy in life, having children.
My Mom in 1981 gave birth to my older sister, my brother a short 13 months after she was born, and then me 2 years later...We are all healthy and happy and I am 27.
so....don't let yourself think for a second that you won't be able to have another child. the loss of a baby is the worst thing you can experience, but in time it will become bearable, and you will get stronger each day...rely on close friends and family for support, turn to this site and find your strength. But don't deny yourself of having another one. You will, I can feel it!!!! good luck my dear
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My husband and I have has several miscarriages. 3 to be exact, maybe more. After my 3rd they tested me for a blood clotting disorder. It came back positive three different ways. When my husband and I become pregnant again, I will have to take a shot one time each day. I am already taking the special vit. called metanx it opens your blood vessels and i also take a baby asrain a day. They found a cyst on my only overy, my left one. He was able to remove the cyst without the overy. He didn't find endometosis. He said my tubes were clean as a whissel. I started my cycle the very next day after my surgery. I counted 12 days. Then the next 7 I would be ovulating. So we are trying. I won't find anything out yet, its still too soon. Maybe saturday? The whole surgry I think is a blessing, because after a surgry it is easy to get pregnant. I know how it feels to lose a baby. Especially when pregnancy is everywhere you go.. Some encouargment from me is to read: 1samual Chapters 1 and 2 in the HOLY BIBLE and exodus 23 verse 25-26. Also TBN prayer line the number is 1-800-365-3732. I really hope and pray this helps someone. May God Bless you! We are to praise God in the good times and praise God in the bad times. Gods ways are always good and for the best. God knows more than we do. Even though sometimes we don't understand we arae to trust him and thank him for what we do have.. Satan comes to kill, steal, and distroy, but Jesus came to give us a real and abundant life. All you have to do is ask him to come live in you..( ABC)... Accept.. Believe.. Confess..
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