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expecting misscarriage???

Im really nervous and freaking out. Im 7 Weeks and went in to see the doc for spotting. He checked out the baby and assured me that all was well and spotting was from intercourse. But then he told Mr that the gestational sac was teardrop shaped and that sometimes meant misscarriage. Also, the baby hasnt grown in about 5days, although the heart beat is very strong. To make things worse, my sister in law, who is also pregnant, told me two Weeks ago that she.doesnt want me to be pregnant BC she wants all attention. Now, that she knows ee might have a possible miscarriage, she is being nosey and keeps telling me that she knows we will loose it, just like she did with her first pregnsncy. Im afraid that thr stress of what shr is saying as well is going to make me loose it. I really need some support here. :(
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Aww I'm so happy for you.  I hope you have a normal healthy pregnancy.  RELAX and enjoy your pregnancy. Also if you can stay away from that rude lady do so. If she can't be happy for you and will continue to worry/  bug you, maybe you shouldn't share the good news with her.
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Thank you for your support!
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Thank God! Now stop worrying and stressing. It is not healthy for you. I am glad you have a caring doc. My doc is a piece of CRAP quack and I sadly had to find it out the hard way.
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AMEN!!!
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So, I went to the doctor again today BC I havent been able to sleep nor can I stop crying. I just knew that our little guy was gone and just wanted to know for sure. Well, to our surprise, the baby has caught up in size and has an even stronger heartbeat. When the doc saw me crying, he started crying as well, BC he knew how worked up I had gotten. All I can say is that there IS a God
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How rude of her! Frankly, that makes me really mad for you. Some people are ridiculous. I agree with Scout. You should try to stay away from her.

As for the other, I will be praying for you and your baby. I know it is hard but you need to relax. Stress is not good. I hope everything starts straightening up for you. Pregnancy shouldn't be as stressful as that. I am sorry. If you need to talk, please feel free to send me a message.
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I'm really sorry.  Your sister in law sounds like a real piece of work and i hope you can find a way to stay away from her right now.  It makes me so so mad to hear anyone talk like that.  If she's had a miscarriage then surely she knows all the pain associated with the loss (the emotional pain) and to tell you that you are going to is horrible and not how someone who loves you would be.  Just my opinion.  

I don't know about the no growth (that doesn't sound good), but the strong heartbeat would be encouraging.  Nobody really knows if you'll lose this pregnacy or not and I for one certainly hope you don't.  At this point, I suppose all you can do is wait and see, which is sooooo hard, I know.  Good luck and hun, I sure hope things work out, and I'd stay away from that sil if at all possible.  You need all the support you can get.
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