first pregnancy and scared to death please help...

[nikkiwilbanks]

I found out that i was pregnant. i was so excited. well on sunday me and my husband had sex, and i started spotting. well i looked on the internet and i read that it was normal as long as it didnt get bright red. well on sunday night it became bright red. i went to the hospital and was there for 5 hours and after all those tests my hCG levels were only 11 and they didnt see anything on the ultrasound so they told me either it was inplantation bleeding or a threatned miscarriage and they said that lots of people go on with a full term pregnancy not to worry. they put me on bed rest and i am not supposed to do anything. so i am not i go to the doctor in a week, if my level goes up than ok if it dosent then i "los it". what should i expect? they

[ArmyPrincess819]

I'm sorry for your loss. I wish you the best. Keep your chin up. Let me know what happens.

AP
Ps I'm here if you need to talk!

[nikkiwilbanks]

Hi its me again. sorry i havent been on in a whyle. just a little sad and trying to go on with my life. then i had a sad day when my friend had her baby and we went to see it and i started to cry. well anyways, i was due for my period yesterday and i am going to stick it out for a week or so because of the mc. but i feel sick all day and my boobs are HUGE and i am sleepy and always starving. who knows, i am scared though. well i will let you know. bless all of you

[browngirl27]

Hello ladies,I took a pregnancy test on April 10 (Good Friday) and it came back positive. My husband and I have been trying to conceive since 2006. It had to be the happiest day of my life,my husband bought another test and it to was positive. Saturday morning I noticed very light pink blood,so we went to the ER and took a urine and blood test. Hcg level 30,both positive test,was told to go home and rest.Sunday I returned to the ER because the flow of blood was back,was told I was having a miscarriage. Monday at 3:00pm I went to my doctor and had a negative urine and blood test with hcg level of 11. I have to return to the doctor for another blood test on thursday to make sure my hcg level is 0. So ladies keep your faith because my husband and I haven't lost ours and we are going to continue to try until we have a baby.

[nikkiwilbanks]

Hi again. i went to the doctor that they told me to go to and they said that they dont do blood tests this early. so they did a preg test and i failed so i am wondering if i miscarried or what? i havent had any painful cramps or lower back pain. the bleeding stopped on thursday. everynow and then there is a little when i wipe. i just dont know what to think. also is it true that you are just as fertile after you miscarry as when you have a baby. me and my husband dont want to wait too long we waited 4 years for this one. thanks so much for all yalls kind words. look forward to hearing from you..

[ArmyPrincess819]

Youme- That is a great saying!

[youme123]

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this.  With my son, I bled for three weeks in early pg (red spotting, pink spotting, then turned to brown spotting - 5 wks to 8 wks).  My son is now 21 mos old.  I don't want to give you false hope OR tell you something that is certainly not going to happen to you.  I just want you to know that bleeding can be very normal.  I'm not experienced with HCG levels, so do what the doc is telling you to do - make sure you rest.  My OB said if it's red, go to bed; if it's brown, walk around.  Silly sounding, but I'll remember it forever.  You are probably pretty early along now, so just hang in there.  You can always talk to us, if you need to talk.  Everyone here is wonderful.  Good luck, and you are in my thoughts.    

[ArmyPrincess819]

I'm sorry you are going throug this. I know from my experiences I always have bleeding and slow rising hcg levels. I would def have your blood re-drawn. It is probably to early to have a u/s usually you need to be 6 wks or more to see the baby. You don't want to go see nothing and then stress yourself out! I would try to hang in there and see what happens. Def make a app.I'm here if you need to talk.......Best wishes to you!

AP