forrow up appointment

[annaleesmom]

I had a miscarriage at 13 weeks on Tuesday and Wednesday.  Wednesday I passes the sac.  complete and whole.  I am devistated.

Monday I have a follow up appointment with the doctor.  What can I expect at this visit.  Will they do a physical exam?  I am still bleeding quite heavily and I'm not comfortable with that.  I think
I may cancel my appointment.  

Why does nobody get it?
Why do people keep asking me whats wrong?  Really, what do they think is wrong.  I held what should have been my baby in my hand.  I am not ok.  I am not.

[usuk]

hi again. i replied to another post of yours. you will get a scan to make sure you passed everything. and they make take blood to. they will want to make sure your HCG is dropping. i have had scans before while bleeding and it was not that bad. to prevent any infection you should go and get it over with. hopefully you don't have to sit and wait. if you are upset when you get there, make sure the nurse knows because she can try and put you ahead of the line or give you some privacy in a spare office. take care, be "needy" or "selfish" if you have to and remember the ladies here do care and are not afraid to talk about this.

[annaleesmom]

oops.  I meant FOLLOW up appointment.  sorry.  my mind can't focus.