grief! :(

[neli2013]

I had a miscarriage at 8 wks. Back in june 2013 my baby was suppose to be due last month and my sister in law was pregnant at the sametime with a baby due a month after mines meaning hers was born this month i cant help but to feel anger/sadness can really bare to see the baby or even her..i try to avoid them as much possible but i really just wanna get over this i know i cant stay like this forever..at the sametime im trying to get pregnant again but havent had any luck since after my miscarriage my period is all over the place..can any one advice me on how i can deal with all this..im just fustrated at this point..:/

[prayingforbaby13]

I totally understand how you feel, I had a miscarriage in Nov 2012 and I had a D&C done at the end of November. 1 week after I had the d and c done, my sister found out that she was pregnant. Was I mad? Yes I was.. but I never told n e one b/c I know that it wasn't her fault. and I just at the bright side that I would have another niece to love and spoil. and it so turn out that 2 mths after march 2013 I found out that I was pregnant and my sister and I were both pregnant at the same time.  My niece is 4 mths older than my daughter.

Just bare in mind that it's not her fault and you have a niece/nephew to love.. Try having sex as soon as you finish your period since you don't know when you would be ovulating.

wish you the best of luck..

[MelMoxey]

I feel your pain I miscarried  at 8 wks also. Have your harmines checjed turns out I had pcos and no they didn't see any cysts now the cyst have showed up. They did blood work and a sonogram. My future gave me clomid to help ovulate and concieve.

[EMOTIONALx2]

Well that's natural emotions. There is no quick fix for this situation. Unfortunately it is what it is. I try not to take my feelings out on others happiness. Me and my bf talk and joke about the situation but for him I know deep down he wants a child because I already have an 18 year old and he has no children. And I feel bad knowing that my body isn't holding the babies due to weak uterus. Just make sure that your emotions don't get the best of you and if you notice that happening seek help. I have had cousins having babies around the time mines was due and even cousins getting pregnant after my lost.
So I feel your pain. Hopefully you can be stronger than your overwhelming emotions, get back up on your horse and do it again or seek whatever help you need first. Good luck.