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[anncoates]

i have had 2 m/c this yr 1 in feb and the 2nd in april, both times we wete devastated, we been trying again since but  no luck as yet. i wou;ld have given birth in 2 months and seeing pregnant ladies tears at my heart strings i am happy for them but so wish it could be us, i thought i had got passed the pain and heartbreak but its so raw when i let it get to me, and i am feeling very emotional at these times  if i knew we will have a baby id be extatically happy but life does not work that way we get wat we r given, i wish all of u who have lost a baby success and happiness very very soon ann x

[kristine625]

Well annalessmom let me tell ya', you would probably have an even harder time if I told you how many miscarriages I have had.  More than two :)  The reason I say it with a smile is, although it is tough, the only thing you can do is to keep  moving forward.  Believe me, when I had my first one all I could think of was, "please let the next one work, I don't want to be one of girls who has multiple miscarriages."  But I am.

But the bottom line is this does not mean I will not have a baby.

anncoats, I would say- your feelings are completely normal.  I won't try and give suggestions for ways to make it go away.  But unless your doctor is telling you there is some hardfast reason why you will not be successful, remind yourself of that daily.

Let yourself grieve, but do not let yourself forget about the positives as well.  Hang in there.

[annaleesmom]

It is very understandable that you feel this way.  You have been through so much this past year.  I had my miscarriage a week ago.  I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel after two.  We are all here for you.

[Miranda9]

I understand how you feel.  I've had 3 losses this past year. It was a "baby boom" year for the women at work.  My twin sister had her baby in August.  So, yes, it was - still is -very hard to emotionally deal with all of this.

Just know you are not alone in how you feeling.  But we need to keep positive in our minds!  Good luck.

[leon0409]

I'm sorry for your loss. I completely understand what you are going thorough, I had a miscarriage in April and it is still very hard to look at pregnant women and little babies because I too want to have that now, I would have a 1 month old now and that makes me so very sad. But time has helped me a lot, I still have a lot to go through before I can have a baby, but I'm praying that next time all goes good if God allows it. All I can do is pray and keep the faith. Hang in there and I hope you have a healthy beautiful baby soon, don’t worry we all will and we will feel so blessed I know I will.
Best of luck
Hopeful K

[hope4lilbaby]

Know you are not alone.  I also feel the same way.  I had a D&C done 2 weeks ago. I had to see my Dr. yesterday and I ended up crying on my way out after seeing all those ladies with swelling bellies.  Still waiting for AF to come so my husband and I can ttc again.  Have to wait for 2 cycles until then...have to wait.

[rachaellou06]

its hard isnt it i had a m/c about 6weeks ago now and all i keep hearing is how peole i know are pregant and it just makes my stomac drop and all i want is it to be me! we are trying again but my periodes havent quite got back to normal and am getting really annoyed. hopefully it will be our turns soon! x

[Victoria01]

Oh, I am so sorry for what you have went through. I had a m/c last year and know how hard it is to see other with something that you want so badly. Jealousy, envy, anger, sadness, all the emotions are there. Time will not take away the grief, but it does help. Try to stay positive and I know your time will come.