miscarriage#2

[rachellesantos]

Am I doing something wrong? Someone help. I can't hold a baby over 7 weeks. :/

[lolen06]

hi there,

i love your post! thanks, it gives me hope...:)

[amy8702]

Hey there,

I understand after 2 miscarriages all the red flags pop up and you start to wonder what's wrong with you. Truth is, a vast majority of pregnancies end in early miscarriage with no known cause unfortunately. Dr's usually don't investigate until you have 3 consecutive miscarriages (because they are that common) I had 4 miscarriages in a year! And, I went for the testing and nothing was wrong it literally was bad luck. After those I got pregnant with my now healthy 2 month old. So chin up, don't believe it's your body other then it just being a "fact of life" best wishes to you

[lolen06]

i had miscarried at 7 weeks too. it was my first experience. its really painful to think after you expected it, now it is gone.. but all is well.. God has better plans for us, for our family. we have to be careful next time, take vitamins (folic, ferros sulfate), quit alcohol/ smoking (even if you havent conceived yet), do little exercise, and pray.

baby dust to all! >>>(._.)<<<<

[rachellesantos]

Thanks ginger. Im hoping everything goes good for me one day :/ im praying for the best.

[Ginger077]

Sadly I've had two also. The last one was confirmed a chromosome abnormality. You may ask about immune issues or blod clots being an issue. They can put you on meds for these problems to prevent these things from causing MC's. I was taking lovenox, prednisone and baby aspirin.
I know it's heartbreaking to go thru but have faith that one day soon your prayers will be answered.
Best of luck to you!
Ginger

[rachellesantos]

Omg you just made me feel like ten times better about the situation. Thank you! I really want a baby it will just be the missing piece to my family. Im going to ask them to run some tests on me and see if maybe there is a lack if a certain vitamin I need or if when the baby hits a certain amount of weeks it needs more of one thing. Thank you so much for replying with your post and explaining yourself I enjoyed reading it.

[rach301]

Hi Rachel

I am so sorry for your loss. Please don't be so hard on yourself, ur doing nothing wrong. I have just had a 2nd miscarriage & I have no children. It's my 2nd miscarriage in a year!!

My 1st miscarriage, the baby measure just over 5 weeks, and on this miscarriage the baby was just over 9 weeks. It's very painful experience having 1 never mind 2. Having more than 1 miscarriage is quite common. People just don't talk about it.

I have know women having more than 2 miscarriages and they now have children. We have just been unlucky and it really *****.

Talk to ur GP about getting ur miscarriages investigated and they will run tests to see if they can find a cause. Most of the time there is no cause. I know it sound harsh, but it's the luck of the draw.

Our time will come Rachel. I know ur scared, and u may feel that u can't have a child, but that's not true, some woman just have more than 1 miscarriage, but it's not a bad reflection on you or ur body. You and I have just been very unfortunate to have 2 miscarriages.

Take ur time and grieve and heal urself. This is not the end even though it sometimes feels that way. Keep very busy and talk about it. Talking it through with others really does help, more than u would ever believe. Ur friends and family will be a great deal of supportive and this is what u need.

Life is hard and some people have to deal with more blows than others.

If u need anything or if u wanna chat am always here for you x x x

Rachel