misscarage

[flats23]

hi well i had a misscarage on this year   and i think i cant have kids

[chan25]

If I were you I would keep trying. Just because you had a miscarriage does not mean you are not able to have kids. The first time I was pregnant I ended having a miscarriage at 24 weeks, got pregnant again and have a beautiful little girl who is almost 8, got pregant 3 years later and had another miscarriage, had a perfect little boy a year later. I think I may have just recently gone through another miscarriage although I wasn't far enough along to know I was even pregnant (have all the symptoms though).

I'm sorry about your loss. It is a very hard thing to have to go through. Give yourself some time to heal both physically and mentally and try again when you are ready. Don't give up though.

[cocacolapanda]

What makes you think you can't have children?  Was there a condition or something the dr said you had?

I agree with Nancy, most women will have a miscarriage some time in there life, even if they don't realize it.  Many women miscarry before they know there pregnant, most miscarriages happen before 12 weeks pregnant, however it still happens after 12 weeks.  

Some women who miscarry do have something wrong with there body/pregnancy.  For example some women have blood clots and that causes a miscarriage.  These days if DR's know whats wrong there able to help make sure it doesn't happen again.  Then the rest of us they would just monitor us as most miscarriages aren't caused by anything.

I'm so sorry you lost your baby.  I lost my second baby to a missed miscarriage, after talking to friends family I had a LOT of friends/family that lost a baby.  Many of my friends have lost there first.

[Fugitive06]

A lot of women have miscarriages.  Talk to other women in your family, chances are many have had at least one.

"Studies reveal that anywhere from 10-25% of all clinically recognized pregnancies will end in miscarriage."
This means that many more than that actually occur - before a woman may even know that she is pregnant.

Please do not draw the conclusion of infertility based on one miscarriage.  Drs & midwives will not even look into the cause of a miscarriage unless a woman has 3 in a row.  In addition, if not actively avoiding pregnancy, the average woman has only a 20% chance of getting pregnant during a given cycle.  That's why you will not be seen by a fertility specialist until you have been trying to get pregnant for over a year with no success.  Unless you have underlying medical issues.

One miscarriage does NOT put you at higher risk for another & it is certainly NOT a sign of lack of or even decreased fertility.

You are SO young, you have SO many baby-making years ahead of you!!
I was 31 when I got pregnant with #1 & she was an "oops!"  I found out at 13 weeks.  This is the first time I even thought about TRYING to have a baby & I'm 39.
We started trying in Aug 09 & got it on the 1st try but I miscarried at 11 weeks.  This is our 1st month of trying.  I'll be thrilled but also surprised if we get it.

I don't blame my m/c on anything.  No on my age, fertility or health (I'm in better shape & healthier than I was at 20), I just miscarried - like my Mom (2), my MIL (2), my sister (1) & friends (many, from age 23+).

It *****, it hurts, it's heartbreaking, it is a true loss & it often requires mourning BUT it is also nature & your body doing it's job.

Good luck to you, take care & Namaste!

Nancy