i am so sorry for your loss. I had the same thing happen to me earlier this year. I had a d&c done on March 31 and didn't get my period until July 11th. It did come on its own. I had the same questions. I was calling my doctors a lot at that point also. Good luck.
hi im sorry for your lost i would wait 12 weeks if no period follow up with your doctor to make sure there is not any reasons why you have not started...goodluck