I am very sorry to hear your news! it is very difficult to go on after this. I sadly lost mine yesterday because I was told by the er staff I have a Y shaped uterus which I was never told about when I got my ultrasounds done when I was younger. hope all goes well for you!!!!!!!!!
may god be with you
Yeah I don't really want to try other forms of the birth control because I don't want the IUD or anything that has to be inserted or implanted in me. The doc said that the pill would help regulate my periods & that the doc suggests not trying again until my periods get back to normal. Thank you.
Hi again,
Just re-reading the replies. I was wondering - if you're taking a break and going on the pill - don't you have to wait a couple months AFTER you go off the pill to ttc ? I remember my doctor telling me that back then - she said something about allowing the body to normalize the hormones . Ask your doc - you might want to try other forms of birth control if you plan to ttc right after this break. (Anyone have any other info ?) Good luck on your test results November - keep us posted.
im sorry honey im going though a similar problem, im waiting o find out if im experience my second miscarriage. all i can tell you is be strong.. you can always try again just keep your head up baby,,, and friends they will come and go i know its sad to loose your best friend to a betrayl it happened to me too shortly after my first miscarriage but eventually youll meet better people that will make you happy and treat you right.. perfect example my ex best friend screwed me over after my first miscarriage.. we even had matching tattoos and i had put a rough over her head for 2 years, feed her.. took care of her... etc.... when i realized who she really was i was devestated but by her hurting me i realized that another friendship i had had on the backburner and never really appreciated.. that that girl would end up being more thn i could ever ask for in a best bud. i promise you, youll try again it will be fine, and youll meet a new better bestie... on the miscarriage thing you just have to stay strong and remember that you can always try again...dont let yourself go catatonic like i did the first time... just stay strong honey
Yeah it's crazy how things happen.
I am also on my second miscarriage in a row and have an older child. Sometimes these things just happen. There is nothing you did that caused this. Some people wait for a few months and some don't.
I also have a "friend" issue. She e-mailed me to say she thought I was "mad" (her words) to exercise while trying for a baby (even though I stopped as soon as I found out) and basically blamed this and flying and drinking (again I didn't drink after ovulation and even before it was only one every now and then) for my miscarriage. I am still waiting to pass the sac naturally so am right in the middle of things. Nice timing huh? People will hurt you, we're all human.
Take care. This will happen for you one way or another I believe.
It went well. I decided to go on the pill. Doc says to wait about 2-3 months to start trying again. They did some lab work to see if they can figure out why I miscarried twice in a row. I will get those results when I go back to the doc Nov. 5th.
Hi,
Just checking up on you - how did your appt go ?
Thank you so much for your advice. I have an appt this coming Wednesday then 2 weeks after that where they are gonna do lab work to see if they can find out what's going on. It's just hard going through them back to back like that. I appreciate your advice & support.
Jacksons_mommy,
Hi there, sorry for your losses and that you're going through a bad time now. I know it probably doesn't feel like it now - but, things will get better. Don't give up hope - you've got a son and you were able to get pregnant these 2 other times so you know you CAN get pregnant. Unfortunately, many pregnancies don't develop before the first trimester is over - and it could be that yours ( like my two ) were "flukes". I was given tests and while they're not all back yet ( Oct 26th ) - my OB said that I may have a clotting disorder. I learned about baby aspirin ( from this forum ) and got my OB's approval to take it since I'm ttc'ing again. It thins out the blood and prevents clotting. Ask your doctor about it and do get the green light from him. Good luck to you and congrats on your engagement.