Harold passed away this morning

My Dear Family,

I wanted to tell you that  my neighbor and good friend, Stella called me early this morning, Harold passed away this morning. He passed peacefully, at home.

I want to thank everyone that had kept him in their prayers.

I am very heavy hearted. I will miss that dear sweet man so much. I have never known two better people than Harold and Stella.

I'm very grateful that he passed, peacefully, at home. I'm grateful that I was able to spend time with him on Saturday and that I was able to tell him, one last time that I loved him.

Please keep Stella in your prayers. She is such a dear lady.

In sadness,
Sheila

[Momzilla]

We will keep you and Stella and Rich in our prayers.  

I'm sorry for your loss.  It is no wonder that you are surrounded by such dear, sweet people.  You speak often of those that you love using those words.  I am sure that people like that, like Stella and Harold, seek out the loveliest people as friends.  Like you.  He was lucky to have you in his life.  I'm glad you were able to tell him one last time how you loved him.

Sharing your sadness, sending you Light,

Zilla*

[sllowe]

Hi Sheila,

I'm sorry Sheila. I never know what to say much with loss that is so close like this.  I'm sending you a big warm hug, and then a kiss on your cheek, and will pray you and Stella receive some peace in your hearts.  What a blessing for you both to have each other for the time you did.

-Shell

[LATW]

Oh, I am so sorry to hear this Sheila.  Will be praying.

LA

[Rena705]

I would like to offer my deepest sympathy in your loss of a dear friend...you have mentioned before how wonderful these people are and I am sure you are going to miss him terribly.  Please know my thoughts are with you.

Lots of tender hugs,

Rena

[Sarahsmom46]

Losing a friend is so hard.  It truly is.  But you no doubt have so many fond memories of him that when you think of him it will be with gladness and love.  You probably even have stories to tell.  Leaving a memory behind for others is one of the best tributes we can give to those who are left behind.  Remember your friend in a way that will bring a smile to your face and peace in your heart.  

Julie  

[Lulu54]

Your earlier post about Harold, and your relationship with him and his wife as your neighbors touched me.  You are so fortunate to have had both of them in your life as friends.  Now it is Stella's turn to be fortunate to have you to look after her as she faces her new life without Harold.
My condolences to you both,
Lulu

[Wobbly]

Sorry to hear such sad news, I'm glad he went quietly and peacefully...take care to you and Stella

Hugs
wobbly
undx

[Cre8_it]

Hi I'm sorry that you have lost a dear friend.  I remember you speaking about Harold and Stella with such fondness and appreciation.  The time when he cleared the snow for you and the blessing just from being friends.  I remember this because it was so touching and your love so clear.  I will pray for you and Stella.

Sending you warm hugs
Zeta

[Heather3418]

Sweetheart,

Now that Harold is in Heaven at peace, may I admit to you what I prayed for a few weeks ago when you asked us for prayer?

First I prayed for Stella and for her strength through these tough times ahead, I prayed for you and then I prayed that God would take Harold quickly.  I knew that he was not going to recover from what you told us, so I just prayed for God to make it as peaceful as possible.  I almost feel ashamed that I did not pray for his renewed health, but I knew from what you told us, that it was Harold's time.  So I prayed for his peace...

I again pray for Stella and for you, their wonderful and precious friend.  These precious people were a God-send to your life, honey.  You were a joy to have in THEIR lives.  Harold will never forget you...I am sure of that.

With warm tears I was sad to hear this news...

I love you precious,
Heather
Earth Mother

[yorkieville]

Good Morning, My Blessed Forum Family,

I just wanted to come in this morning and say "Thank You" for all the most beautiful, expressions of condolences.

I can barely type though the tears hitting my keyboard.

None of you every cease to amaze me with your kindness and compassion.

Rich and I are grieving deeply, but also rejoicing in the knowledge that Harold is no longer suffering and is in Heaven. Truly, if someone as good as Harold isn't in Heaven, then Heaven is empty.

It was also my prayer that God grant Harold a peaceful passing, since his cancer was terminal.  

I cannot begin to tell you what an impact these two wonderful people made on my life.

They set a true example of the Sacrament of Marriage.

They made me want to be a better person.

I believe, Harold knew on Saturday, that he was dying. There was something in the way, we held each others gaze, when I bent to kiss him and say "I love you".

Monday night, I sat up late, thinking of Harold telling us on Saturday, that he was not in any pain, and I wondered if his time was close.

I had baked a pumpkin pie and Rich and I were planning to go next door and visit with them yesterday.

I had just showered, when Rich brought my cell phone to me and said "It's Stella". I thought she was calling to see if we were coming over.

I won't be here for a little while, but each of you is in my heart.

Love,
Sheila

[Fluffysmom]

Dear Sheila,

I'm sorry I missed your post yesterday.  I will pray for peace for you and Stella and Rich.  I too prayed that Harold would be comfortable and be taken Home soon, and that Stella would find the strength to endure, and find comfort and peace in the lovely memories she has of their many years together, and the fact that he had no pain.

When my dad passed away from cancer, he had that loving glow in his eyes; he was at peace, loved me, had no more pain, and was going Home.  It helped me to get through it all.

Remember the look you shared with Harold as you told him you loved him on Saturday;  I believe, as I did with my dad, that he was letting you know that heaven was lovely, he would be there soon, and not to worry as he will be at peace and waiting patiently for Stella to join him when her time comes.

A love that strong goes on, even when one partner goes Home.  I'm so glad that Stella has you and Rich nearby, so you can share your grief and pain as well as relief that Howard feels no more pain.  You can share stories about your times with the two of them, and comfort each other.

Much love,
Kathy