WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

HELLO THERE,
OKAY ABOUT 10 YEARS AGO MY FINGERTIPS STARTED GOING KNUMB.THEN HANDS,
TOP BACK PAIN.GRADUALLY ALL WORSE,THE BACK PAIN SLOWLY OVER TIME MOVED DOWN MY BACK NOT RETURNING BACK UP.I HAD TO WAKE UP AT NIGHT TO WAKE MY HANDS UP.SHAKE THEM SQUEEZE THEM.WELL MY BACK GETTING SO BAD,MOSTLY LIKE WHEN SWEEPING MOTION.I WENT TO KAISER HOSPITAL FOR BACK THEY SAID I HAD CARPOL TUNNEL.NEVER RECIEVED DIAGNOSIS FOR BACK.WELL 4 YEARS AGO I WAS TO WHERE I CANNOT STAND STILL IT FEELS LIKE MY BACK IS BREAKING,I HAVE TO BEND BACK WARDS CURVE MY SPINE OT THE BACK.I CANNOT WALK MUCH,I CANNOT SIT TO LONG IN 1 PLACE.NOW THE BACK PAIN IS ALL THE WAY TO BUTT/TAILBONE AREA.SOMETIMES RIGHT BUTT BONE HURTS SOMETIMES LEFT BUT ALWAYS THE MIDDLE.
IT BURNS IT FEELS LIKE EXHAUSTED,I ALSO CANNOT WRITE A PARAGRAPH MY WRIST FEEL SO EXHAUSTED,I SHAKE IT AND WRITE ANOTHER COUPLE WORDS.MY FEET STARTED GOING NUMB ONLY SOMETIMES BUT IF I WALK THEY FEEL EXHAUSTED,I CANNOT RUN MY LEGS FEEL LIKE JELLO,.I WAS FEELING LIKE I HAD TO URINE ALWAYS,I GO LIKE 4-OR MORE TIMES A NIGHT.WHEN I GO TO BED MY BACK FEELS LIKE IT HAS TO ADJUST.I CANNOT LAY FLAT ON MY BACK.ABOPUT 2 YEARS AGO MY LEGS STARTED SWELLING,THEY SAY ITS ADEMIA.PUT ME ON WATER PILLS.THEN A FEW MONTHS AGO MY BACK OF MY CALVES STARTED TURNING BRIGHT RED AND MY LEGS STILL SWELL. I ALSO STARTED HAVING BLADDER LEAKAGE.IF I DARE TO CLIMB IN BED OR? I LEAK A LOT.
I WEAR LIKE 6 TO 8 LINERS A DAY.NOW LIKE TOTAL OF 10 TIMES IVE LAID DOWN TO GO TO SLEEP AND I DOZE OFF AND WAKE UP REALLY FAST LIKE FEELING LIKE MY HEART WAS STOPPED BUT STARTED GOING AGAIN REALLY FAST.BACK A COUPLE MONTHS AGO I HAD VERY RAPID HEART BEAT SPELLS. IVE FELT DIZZY HERE AND THERE BUT OFTEN.
I DONT KNOW IF AL;L THIS IS 1 PROBLEM OR ?//??? IM ONLY 35 YEARS OLD..NO KIDS, THEY SAY MY TUBES ARE BLOCKED.MARRIED 8 YEARS WITH HIM 15 YEARS...
I WANT A FAMILY SO BADLY...WHEN I GOT MARRIED 8 YEARS AGO I WEIGHED 135LBS.
NOW IM UP TO 250.....I CANNOT EVEN ENJOY LIFE,I GO TO WALMART AND BY THE END OF THE SHOPPING MY STOMACHE HURTS SO BADLY....MY LEGS SWELL REALLY BADLY.
I CANNOT SWEEP THAT MOTION GETS ME REALLY BADLY. AND MY BUTT BONES GET TO HURTING SO BBADLY EITHER 1 OR THE OTHER OR BOTH.1 DR. SAID I HAVE ARTHRITUS IN MY TAILBONE.
1 SAID IT WAS A NON FIXED BROKEN TAILBONE.
THEY ALL SAY MY WEIGHT BUT HONESTLY WEIGHT HAS CAME OVER TIME OF SYMPTOMS.
BUT THE DRS. JUST ASSUME I WAS ALWAYS FAT I GUESS....
CAN ANYBODY HELP?

[TonkaSpirit]

Does your doctor know about alll of your symptoms?  Including the leaking?  Make sure he does, and if you don't feel like you are being taken seriously, change doctors.  By the way we also have a Virtual Losers on this forum, where we challenge eachother & support eachother with weightloss, you are encouraged to join us.  It is hard to move when you are not feeling well or are in pain, but you must move in order to get back into shape.  Either way if it is your weight that is causing this or not, you will definitely feel better if you drop it off.  Even if you cannot move well, you could get some hand weights and begin lifting the weights while you sit.  This will build up muscle tone and when your body is busy building muscle, it is burning fat and speeding up your metabolism for at least 24 hours.  So work your arms one day and then let your muscles repair themselves,   Do your legs with some ankle weights, they have velcro straps, the next day.  Just rotate.  Exercise also releases endorphins in our brains that make us happier and feel good.  Let me know if we can help in any way.  Then, when or if your symptoms don't go away, you can tell your doctor that you have lost weight and you still have your symptoms...they can't blame it on your weight.