bladder overactive or lowering with age post child birth 9 keegls do not seen to helplp

Good evening all;
I ws wondering how the typical description of an MS bladder is.  I do not know if what I am experiencing is from a bladder that has been streched post child birth or is it MS related.
I do have to go, go go, my children joke about mom and her having to go all the time and "now'.  I do leak when doing activities: for example I was shooting baskets with my boys (this is a site, I am no athlete) but it is family time and I try to participaate.  The problem is that I leak, and to the point of wetting myself.  This can also occur if I am playing bellls or walking or sittng. Not all the time but it happens, like all of a sudden.  I try to be very aware of  my having to urinate frequently. I make a point on going whenever I leave the house, store ect.  Even at that, I may still have a wetting situation. (I have gone as far to empty my bladder just befor copulation, because I am afraid of having to go or wetting on the spot, (this kind of ruins the mood and it is embarrassing).  Any thoughts from some of the experts out there, have any of you experienced these problems?  Please advise or just comment.
Thank-you
Kind Regards
clark-5  

[AMO]

hi   clarlk,

sorry you have this trouble.
have you  seen a urologist? seeineg on ewould be a good idea I think.

There is a urodynamiiic test that cann tell you dooctor just what is going on.
The nurse practioner in my ms doctors made me believe mmy bladder was average and normal from having twoo  children. no wonder sheis not her e anymore!

I know,, more tests and appotintments are a bummer.
But, maybe it is due from childbirth, and not neurogenic that some thing my help you.
take care, amo