Hi Amanda - Welcome to our group, but sorry you came looking :-)
Some of what you describe sounds a bit MSish, but most does not. Because MS attacks the central nervous system symptoms can havean almost infinite universe. If you google just about any symptom, MS is usually on the list of possible causes.
I think you're on the right track by seeing a neuroopthamologist. You have a history of headaches and thinning of the optic nerve. He?she should be able to give more info. If you want to rule MS in ir out, then I'm with Alex. ind a neurologist that specializes in the diagnosis and treatment of MS. It can be a long and frustrating process, but you will know whether or not MS is on the table.'
Kyle
Have you seen a single neurologist over time? Neurologists track you over time. Sometimes if you switch you have to start over. Plus are any the neurologists you are seeing a MS Specialist. It is easier to be diagnosed if the neurologist knows a lot about MS.
Alex