Loss of reflexes following a seizure or a flurry of them is not unusual. In the immediate period after a generalized seizure, the body may be weak with decreased muscle tone and reflexes. Within a few hours, things should get back to normal. BUt if they're on heavy meds e.g. high doses, combinations of several meds, valium/ativan, etc..., this can also lead to depressed reflexes. Another possibility is that the neurological exam especially in a child is best performed by a neurologist with special tools/reflex hammers. Sometimes, the types of reflex hammers used by primary care physicians are not adequate or not heavy enough, etc... and just because the PCP can't get the reflexes, they may not really be lost. I can understand your concern for your son, but the depressed reflexes in this particular context do not appear to be the most concerning problem nor do they seem predictive of one, especially if he was able to walk from the parking lot and the "loss" was symmetric. Now if the primary problem were a muscle or nerve problem (which ti doesn't sound like) then the loss of reflexes would be significant. So, would not worry too much about the "loss of reflexes" at this point.
Based on the brief report that you provide, it does sound like it was another febrile seizure. Usually with brain tumors (depending on where they are), the patient may have increased reflexes on the opposite side of the body from irritation in the brain rather than decreased reflexes. It seems that your docs are pursuing the cause of his seizures in an appropriate manner. Once your doc has more information from the diagnostic testing, then more questions may arise, but for now the important thing is for your to ask what should you do in the event he has another episode. Should you give him medication preventively or only with seizures. Good luck.
my father experienced one as a toddler, never receiving medical diagnosis or anti-convulsant treatment. he never experienced another, though was prone to fainting through his teens.
i experienced febrile grand mal types seizures throughout my infancy and early years. i was treated with phenobarbital, which somewhat controllled my seizures until i outgrew the condition. medication was stopped in elementary school and i never experienced another grand mal seizure until last week. it was actually my 29th birthday. my husband had to call 911. i lost conciousness while washing my face in the bathroom mirror, striking my forehead onn the mirror, then falling backward into tight convulsions. when he heard me fall, he opened the door to find my eyes rolled back, mouth foaming, tensely jerking. i bit my tongue as well. i turned blue before the paramedics arrived. he rolled me on my side and pried open my jaw. he said i began to regain color and awareness moments later. i don't remember anything. i was severely queasy and fatigued. i spent three days in hospital, being admitted from e.r. on the chance of a dialated blood vessel that was spotted on an e.r. catscan. i had an mri/mra (the mra is similiar to mri, though iodine is injected through an iv cath to provide further detailing through contrast. this test ruled out the blood vessel being at fault. you definitely want to ask about this test, as the next one scheduled for me was a spinal tap to determine if i had hemoglobin in my spinal fluid. after having an eeg, i have been diagnosed with left temporal lobe epilepsy and put on dilantin. the doctors have informed me that roughly 4% of those children with febrile seizures develope epilepsy.... but look at my case, you never know. have your son receive an eeg asap and ask about seismic activity in the temporal lobes. hope you get some answers soon, good luck!