Dear Shel:
It is noble of you to try and help our friend. I would be very suprised if they found MRI lesions in the brain, CSF typical of MS and not tell your friend. So, obvious it is something they can't diagnose. Unfortunately, this does happen in medicine. Something that happens to both legs at the same time is usually spinal cord. Alot of what to think about would depend on what the MRI of the spine looked like at the time of the event. However, what is strange is that is also effects the hands, and then is episodically one side or the other. Therefore either the etiology is moving up and down the spine or it is in the brain. But, since your not telling me that they found something in the spinal cord or brain, I'm not sure what to say (likely you don't know). There are so periodic paralysis syndromes, but these are ion channel defects that when the event occurs, the ion in question is very abnormal. This would have been found on routine lab checks. So, I can't tell you what is going on with your friend. I do hope your friend finds some answers.
Sincerely,
CCF Neruo MD