As encouragement, our grand daughter was much as you describe and worried us very much, particularly as we have two nieces one with severe autism and the other with aspergers. She is now 5, highly imaginative, and communicates well with a wide range of vocabulary and is a very caring and sociable little girl. She was slow to talk and once she started to talk it was as though she was acting a role rather than communicating. Her mum who is a speech and language teacher practised naming things and giving simple instructions like 'find teddy' but I think limiting her television viewing was also crucial to her speech and communication development.
I'm sure your little grandchild will come on well, try not to worry- hope this is an encouragement to you.
my son is 2 and a half and doesnt speak he says mama and dada but we think he doesnt no what they mean he only understands catch my hand and puts up his legs when we put socks on him and sometimes shoes other then that he doesnt understand anything else we could call him 4 or 5 times before he would look at us he loves playing chasing with his brother but thats it he wouldnt look at him unless he had something he wanted hes a very good child and loving he loves his cars he sometimes lines them up and lies down on the floor with one eye closed and looks at them from diffirent angles he only does this with cars and trains anything with wheels he dances in circles and with his hands and babbles to them he loves watching telly and playing with his brother and cousins were very worried about him any ideas of what could be wrong with him. does anyone else have similar issues or have their child have same problems and eventually talked and understood.
my son is 2 and a half and doesnt speak he says mama and dada but we think he doesnt no what they mean he only understands catch my hand and puts up his legs when we put socks on him and sometimes shoes other then that he doesnt understand anything else we could call him 4 or 5 times before he would look at us he loves playing chasing with his brother but thats it he wouldnt look at him unless he had something he wanted hes a very good child and loving he loves his cars he sometimes lines them up and lies down on the floor with one eye closed and looks at them from diffirent angles he only does this with cars and trains anything with wheels he dances in circles and with his hands and babbles to them he loves watching telly and playing with his brother and cousins were very worried about him any ideas of what could be wrong with him. does anyone else have similar issues or have their child have same problems and eventually talked and understood.
Autism is generally considered to be a triad of impairments with strong sensory differences which may be either hypersensitivity or hyposensitivity.
The triad of impairments comprises communication, social interaction and imagination, which imagination really means difficulties in understanding others intentions, and dealing with change, a tendency toward preserving sameness and ritual, for instance an autistic child may play differently with toys, lining up cars or spinning the wheels rather than using them as interpretive objects to stand for something else.
Autism is a whole spectrum and some manifestation from each area of the triad is necessary for a diagnosis, however the mixture of that varies from individual to individual, no two autistic children will be exactly the same, that is in the nature of autism to be highly individuated.
Autistic traits however merge of into "neurotypical" traits and it is impossible to differentiate at some point what is a stereotypical "stim" or repetitive hand movement and something which non autistic children will also do from time to time.
The things to watch out for are the childs use of language, whether it bears much communicative intent, the childs interaction, does the child use adults merely as a tool to get things or is there shared interaction? does the child like to play with other children, is the child excessively attached to certain objects and tantrums when they are removed? Does the child make good eye contact, and look at things when you point to them?
You have to be careful of web sites too, as some of them are written with strong hidden agendas according to the various theories of what causes autism and what the best interventions are.
It happens that Autism is my area of expertise, as apart from being the chief of all hypochondriacs on this board, I do actually have various ongoing involvements with the world of autism.
Any concer nwith a child is worth looking into. I would suggest an autism center if you can find one - you will get the best evaluation that way. If possibly it is a mild form of autism which something is telling you it might be than this is the time to catch it, if it is diagnosed the child can grealty benefit from treatment at an early age. A friend I use to work with her daughter was diagnosed at the same age she is now about 15 and you would never even know. wishing your granchild the best.