Thank you so much for your question- I will address your concerns to the best of my ability although you must realize that I am unable to examine your child and obtain a history and thus my response should be considered as informative rather than as a diagnosis. Let me begin by giving you some background.
As some of the others on the forum have alluded to, autism is part of a spectrum of disorders referred to in the medical community as the pervasive developmental disorders. This group of developmental problems include Autism, Rett's Syndrome, Asperger Syndrome, childhood disintegration disorder, and pervasive developmental disorder not otherwise specified; Rett's and Autism are on the more severe end of the spectrum with Asperger's generally causing more mild developmental impairment. A few years back, there was quite a bit of commotion in the media regarding linkage of autism with vaccination; this connection has yet to be substantiated within the literature and there are mere select cases that have been reported but no clear association between the two.
When evaluating a child for developmental delay, there are various areas that are evaluated, particularly social and language skills. When looking at language, things to consider are whether the child has been delayed on reaching language milestones , and, if delayed, is there evidence of regression. With respect to social interaction, does your child make eye contact with others? Interact with others? Engage in play with others? Sometimes abnormalities in social impairment become more apparent once the child enters daycare years. As you have also alluded to in your question, children with one of the pervasive developmental disorders may demonstrate repetitive behaviors referred to as stereotypies- arm-flapping is one of the more common ones.
The fact that your child interacts with you is encouraging and this hand-flapping that you are noticing may be simple baby play. To give you an idea of normal development, at about 12-14 months, toddlers will generally be able to say "mama," "dada," "no." Based on what you have told me, I wouldn't be too worried about your child at this point but I would make sure to follow regularly with your pediatrician. Your pediatrician would be the best resource for evaluating the developmental progress of your child and can likewise to refer you to developmental specialists for further evaluation should there be concerns for developmental delay.
I know that this information is limited, but I hope it is helpful. Thank you, again, for your question and i wish you the best of luck.
i have a daughter who is 14 now was diagnosed with mild autism at 4 years, no the flapping of the hands does not mean he is autistic my daughter did not do that she just did not develop at at rate that she was supposed to and had a lot of trouble understanding simple commands like "pass me the ketchup" she still at times has trouble with that and socializing is a big problem,just a little test,does he often cover his ears at loud noises,an do things upset him easily,also see if his eye contact is good,try to get him to look you in the eyes, and when he is at play call his name if he does not answer that is a good sign, also most austistic kids have no fear of danger there are 3 people that can diagnose him,neurologist,psychiatrist or psychologist,first get a referral from your family doctor ,chances are if you have an instinct there is something wrong there probably is , i too had an instinct that my daughter had a difference,and don`t worry it`s not the end of the world there are plenty of facilities nowadays that can help him through right to his adulthood,my daughter is in a normal class with kids that are not autistic and she has friends that are not,she is on an iep program that( individual educational progarm) that the schoolboard has developed to help her progress ,they work with her strengths and weaknesses.a little bit more advice if you are going to have him tested do it now the more help he gets before 5 is the best i have been told,i did not know that i waited until 4 years old,i`ll never remember the agony and worry i had sending her off to school that first day after her diagnosis although i had gotten 3 opinions,i will let u know it is a rough road ahead if u decide to have him tested for both you and him and yuor family ,i wish you all the best.
marie
I watched actresses Jenny McCarthy and Holly Robinson discuss autism last night on Larry King Live. Although there has been no link found (as of yet) with vaccinations and autism, both actresses believed that their child's autism was due to certain vaccinations. I know Jenny McCarthy had said that her baby became ill after a vaccination.
I heard that children with autism do better on a gluten free diet.
Doing these things is a right royal pain some times but better to do it and find out you are wrong than not do it and find out years from now that you really should have followed up on your concern. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you are being paranoid or overly concerned. I got that a lot.
On the gluten free diet: there are no conclusive results on that but yes some children do better on a gluten free diet. Symptoms can also be eased by "going green" or eliminating artificial ingredients as much as possible from your child's diet. This I have found to be helpful from personal experience.
One final suggestion: get hooked up with a support group online or in your local community for parent's of asd children. I have found simply talking to other parents helps. Sometimes you get great ideas and sometimes you give them.
autism spectrum disorders are autism, aspergers syndrome and pervasive developmental disorder. There are tons of great books you can read to get more info. If you like I can provide you with a few great titles that I have found to be a huge help for me.
As a side note: autism or asd IS NOT always rain man. Too many people don't know this. You never have to tell anyone about that label if you don't want to, your child isn't doomed to a life in a facility, and autistic children have just as bright a future as any other child. Many adults with more mild asds would never be noticed as different when there was early intervention.
Please excuse my rambling (passionate about the topic i guess).