First of all, keep in mind that I am unable to diagnose you because I am unable to examine you, this forum is for educational purposes.
The questions you raise are common concerns of patients that present with fasiculations (you will find many similar posts on this forum).
1. When patients present with ALS it is generally with weakness and atrophy in a distal upper and/or lower extremity (hand or foot). This is most commonly in the form of hand atrophy/weakness or foot drop. The EMG even in early disease has frequent spontaneous activity (fibrillations and positive sharp waves). It is very important to rule out other conditions that can cause this same picture clinically and on EMG such as multifocal motor neuropathy with conduction block and inclusion body myositis.
Fasiculations on the other hand, are NOT an early finding that then leads to ALS. They can appear at any time in ALS and are a symptom of the lower motor neuron processes(the weakness and atrophy), but can also be found in other myopathic conditions (muscle diseases), after viral infections, after excessive exercise and in normal people. Thus fasiculations are only trouble "by the company that they keep", they do not mean anything towards ALS without weakness and atrophy.
2.CRDs are not a feature of ALS and the EDB is often dennervated by non-neurological processes such as tight shoes. CRDs can be seen in other metabolic diseases, but are often without significance.
3. Polyphasic units with low amplitude is called the "myopathic unit" and is found in muscle diseases. Decreased recruitment is found in ALS because there is less motor units able to respond due to the dying alpha motor neurons (in the spine). The measuring of motor recruitment is subjective and can easily be misinterpreted. I can not see your EMG, but ALS does usually present asymmetrically as mentioned earlier. If you only have decreased recruitment without any other features, this could reflect other spinal cord disorders, old polio, etc, and your EMG should be evaluated by an ALS expert.
4.Not for ALS, as above.
5. People with benign fasiculation syndrome do often complain of fatigue, cramps and exercise intolerance. In studies, these people do NOT go on to develop ALS.
ALS is a clinical diagnosis that is supported by EMG findings with the 2 key features to be concerned about, weakness and atrophy, and even with these symtoms it can be many other things. Neurologist in general work very hard to find another diagnosis than ALS, since there is no treatment, and the average survival after diagnosis is 3 years (although some varients can live longer 10-20 years).