Keep in mind that I am unable to diagnose you, because I am unable to examine you, and this forum is for eduactional purposes. The symptoms you describe are indicative of left temporal dysfunction. The left temporal lobe contains the cortex involved in language generation. Lesions to these areas, most notably the superior temporal gyrus cause a fluent aphasia (Wernickes) while more subtle damage can lead paraphasic errors, word substitutions and the general feeling of getting your words all jumbled up. Arachnoid cysts for the majority of patients are present at birth and rarely expand during maturation and are incidental findings. Rarely these cysts have been described to grow, cause localized mass effect and generate seizure activity. It is very interesting that you had a negative CT 12 years ago, and could indicate that you have an expanding cyst. That being said, I would reccomend a prolonged EEG with sleep and it should only be deemed adequate if your symptoms are captured while connected to the EEG. Your EEG may show temporal slowing (that would indicate dysfunction) or spike/sharp waves (would indicate epileptic activity) If you do not have your symptoms, It is reasonalbe that the EEG may be normal. Temporal lobe dysfunction/language difficulty can originate from many sources besides the clues you presented, other causes are stroke (MRI with diffusion, flair and contrast is the best we have), tumor (occasionaly a cystic astrocytoma can mimic the appearance of an arachnoid cyst), infection (HSV etc, less likley), stress and primary progessive aphasia. In addition to the Prolonged EEG (may need epilepsy monitoring unit stay) I would also suggest a PET scan to look for focal areas of hypometabolism in your left temporal lobe.
As far as your episode after pusrsuing the bus, That sounds to be pure syncope, you had just given blood, you were stressed and running then pale cool clammy...syncope. No need to worry about that one, however if this repeats you should have a cardiac stress echo and holter monitor. I hope this has been helpful.