I have HSV1 that I contracted, I believe from my current partner whom I have been with for 2 years, yet neither of us had any symptoms until about 6 months ago, this is what we found out:
A person can be HSV I or II positive and not know it, show no signs or symptoms for years undetected, most docs wont even test for it unless you are having an outbreak because it is very hard to detect, they have to test you for the antibodies, which is expensive so they dont do it until you have an outbreak.
About 1 in 4 people carries HSV and most dont even know it.
It is very hard to expose someone to the virus unless you have an outbreak and that is probably why your partner is negative since you have never had an outbreak.
You probably contracted it at some point in your sex life and there is no way to tell when or from who cause you can have it for years with no symptoms.
Often times symptoms can be mistaken for a UTI or yeast infection, they are about as equally painful. When the outbreak starts it will look like tiny red bumps like razor burn or a rash, sometimes it could be mistaken for an ingrown hair. If you notice any of these or they sting, go to a doc immediately and MAKE them do a culture. I went to the doctor twice in a lot of pain telling them that I knew what it was cause my bf had just been diagnosed and because it was milder than a typical outbreak they did not test me until I insisted and the symptoms progressed. The faster you go and get the acyclovir (meds) the quicker it feels better and it can actually keep it from getting very severe.
There is still more info than this but I hope this helps. Send me a private message if you have any questions.
Hello and hope you are doing well.
If you do not have any outbreaks or symptoms at present, its unlikely that you have HSV II. For the test results, all results under 3.5 are suspect, and the closer to 1.0, the more likely the result is false.
Hope this helped and do keep us posted.