First of all, keep in mind that I am unable to diagnose you because I am unable to examine you, this forum is for educational purposes. The symptoms and history that you have provided is concerning for a condition called Lupus Cerebritis. Lupus is an auto-immune condition (your own immune cells attack your body) that can sometimes also attack the brain causing inflammation and dysfunction. This dysfucntion can include neuro-psychiatric findings, focal seizures, ataxia (problems with balance) tremor, dementia (problems with thinking) and/or headache. A diagnosis of Lupus Cerebritis is not often easy, but an MRI of the brain, and a PET scan (measures the brains metabolism of glucose) are helpful. Inaddition a lumbar puncture needs to be done to evaluate for infections that can mimic Lupus Cerebritis, such as Toxoplasmosis (check with your neuro to see if they ordered Toxo test/infectious workup in your LP). When a person already has altered mental status from brain inflammation, injury, infection etc. then the anti-epileptic drugs tend to have worse side effects. Topamax can make you loose weight (although often a modest amount, which then stabilizes). Keppra is a drug that has few side effects, but the one most often reported is neuro-psychiatric (irritable, aggressive behavior, "makes me mean"), thus if your are already having problems with neuro-psych issuses presumably due to Lupus Cerebritis, then this may not be the best drug for you. I would suggest a drug in the trileptal/tegretol family, which are good for complex partial seizures. I would also add Klonipin(clonazepam), this would help with your tremor and help control your epilepsy. You should also have a repeat EEG now and when you change medications to assess your epileptic activity (complex partial seizures can be subtle and might not be recognized without EEG).
I hope this has been helpful.